Hi all,

I see that sugaring is not encouraged on here. But where do we draw the line since we want them men to provide still?

Because in past relationships i had them provider partners sending me money to help with expenses - is that sugaring?

And if we want men to spoil us, is it not a good option to browse sugar dating sites while maintaining a good career? So you can have the independence and the spoiling.

I have a particular hang up about a scrote ex who offered me sugaring to go back - I said no and kept hanging around him. Now he’s paying new women he’s seeing. Did i do the right thing or was I stupid?

Please give me guidelines. Personally I draw the line when it comes to straight cash, and I stop seeing them when attraction is gone.

My friend told me I should have hanged on a bit longer and get my “paycheck” for putting up with his shit. Thoughts and opinions?