Suze Orman Uses Basic Math to Show Why 50/50 is Unfair, and How to Fairly Share Expenses

honeybeeroll · 2021-03-27T19:21:31+00:00

Other important notes: have your own money!! While Suze Orman doesn't have joint accounts w/ her partner of 20+ years, she isn't against them; she notes in the video you may have a joint account, but you HAVE to have your OWN accounts. 50/50 is Unfair because it's not proportional to income - instead, contribute to shared expenses w/ the same percentage. If your shared expenses are 30% of your shared income, then each person contributes 30% of their income to those shared expenses. Different dollar amounts proportional to what each person makes, so actually fair, unlike 50/50.

I think it's worth noting that Suze Orman has been in a lesbian relationship for a long time, and when it comes to straight women dating straight men, the situation for most here, most of us cannot fully trust or be comfortable w/ a man unless he's spending money on us. More than we spend on him.. Too many times we have seen or experienced men who are cheap with money, and how they're also cheap w/ us in other ways (emotionally, sexually), and how this cheapness signals to us that he's not really that invested in us. The reality is also in the era of dating apps, men who are simply trying to get laid have to stretch their dollar further so it can be used for more dates with more women, and a dude who's cheap right off the bat is likely one who is playing the field like crazy, and not someone you want to get involved with.

So what I'm saying is I like Suze's advice a lot, I think she's right, I think what she says is fair, but I think we also have to listen to our gut. If a man is VERY concerned with financial fairness, only spends as much on you as you do on him...you probably have a bad gut feeling, and you should listen to it instead of talking yourself out of it.

2021-03-28T04:08:48+00:00

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immybox · 2021-03-27T19:46:43+00:00

I totally agree with this, you definitely have to protect yourself when in a relationship and ensure you have your own money. As mentioned if income isn’t the same for each person 50/50 is unfair and not equal - own accounts are 100% necessary, what a great video!

Bbeautifulbitch · 2021-03-27T21:32:43+00:00

Sorry guys Suze is a scammer look into her prepaid debit card scandal... major predator

Title	Suze Orman Uses Basic Math to Show Why 50/50 is Unfair, and How to Fairly Share Expenses
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Date	March 27, 2021 7:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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