I’ve been watching Teen Mom and really feel for the women in the show. You really have to be careful who you have a baby with. ALL of the dad’s in the show are AWFUL. Yes, the women also make HORRIBLE decisions and are complete pickmes.

Jenelle and Kieffer are the biggest disappointment of any women’s choice in men ever. Kieffer has no job, no place to live, leeches off her money. Jenelle steals her mom’s credit cards to buy him food, weed and gas for her car to drive him around. He dropped out of high school, makes 0 attempt to ever get a job. They basically live homeless and he is rude to their mom while smoking weed on her porch and gets them kicked out. They break and enter one of his friend’s house and they both get arrested for drug possession. Jenelle bails him out of jail with her money, and begs her friends who are over 21 to sign for him to get out. Jenelle then risked in court getting 260 days in jail and a permanent criminal record all because of him. He takes her care and drives around to gamble all his money. They get kicked out her mom’s house again and sleep in her car.

After that, they get into a fight and he physically abuses her. They show it on camera. He throws her around, pushing and shoving and throwing things. He then spends time in jail after she presses charges for DV. She spends all Christmas crying because she misses him. She then bails him out.

He gets jealous over a text from a male friend of hers and he blocks her calls and leaves. She cries for an entire day. (later she finds him texting another girl)

She CHASES after him and says she loves him and begs him to get back together pleading on her knees. They break up. They get back together.

This man isn’t even her baby’s father. She is prioritizing a boyfriend. Her baby’s father is not in the picture.

Jo Rivera and Kailyn Lowry constantly have disputes about money. He doesn’t believe he should have to pay child support. He doesn’t believe he should have to help his own child out with housing for the mother of his child so they rely on welfare. He kicks her out of his house, and verbally abuses her.

People hate this show. But after watching I’m seeing the true lessons for moms/women. Be careful who you have a baby with. If you cannot financially support yourself and your baby alone, do not have a child. Always have a back up plan. Verbal abuse is abuse do not let any man call you a b*** for setting boundaries. Having a baby is always has responsibly on the mother. Brace yourself & think about would this be a person I would want to coparent with. Does this man respect me at our worst?

tl;dr Teen mom pickme story time