I seriously love this page so much. Anytime I post a problem I have so many women give me great and honest advice . I have dumped my ex of almost 3 years and finally realized that i deserve to be happy , and I deserve to make myself happy ! I broke things off with a guy who wasn’t on the same page as me , and ended things ! I did that! I stood my ground when an old crush came back and was playing mind games , but in all honesty I think he just wanted to feel good about himself and I stopped talking to him immediately. I am standing up for myself !! I decided to buy myself some Christmas presents , and set up LED lights in my room , On my own!! No help, just me! And it felt great to be in control and do something without having or needing someone there with me. I bought satin pillow cases , new face routine , face masks , just doing things to make ME happy! I even got a beanbag and plop right in front of the tv and knit all night . Sorry for this random post but I am just finally happy to make ME happy and not worrying about someone else . A new break just in time for the holidays and the new year ! Thank you ladies for all the advices and thanks for making me realize I can be strong on my own!!!