There’s a lot of posts about low effort men out here, so I wanted to post some positivity! This isn’t really about using fds techniques for dating, so let me know if this post isn’t really suited for this sub.

My fiancé recently started waking up two hours earlier than he needs to so that he can turn on the heater and go back to bed. By the time I wake up (I have to leave for work an hour before him), the room is nice and toasty. And the other day I went to the gym at night, when I got home he had turned on the heater and set out a fresh towel and my robe and slippers for after a shower. When I thank him for that kind of stuff, he shrugs it off, because to him it’s so obvious to just do these little things because they take him such little effort. I know how many guys wouldn’t even do that though. On the same token, he cooks and cleans the kitchen everyday because he gets home three hours earlier than me and wants me to have as much free time as he does so we can enjoy it together (or apart if we want to.)