This is my first post here so hey y’all. I’m young (16) but I feel like I share a similar mindset to a lot of this community so anyways now that I’ve introduced myself let me rantttt!

You know those guys who think for some reason every breathe a woman takes must be for a man? I think I finally understand it. The reason why males think women are always pressed for their validation is because they themselves are always seeking male validation. They get a hot girl and the first thing they want to do is show her off to their friends, they work hard to get promotions so they can brag to their friends about making more, they lift more at the gym to “flex their gains”. So many things males do are almost solely for the validation they will receive from other men. It’s honestly fascinating how many men I’ve seen shy away from a hobby or life choice they really want because “their boys” will make fun of them. This and that most males are insecure and will project, they are so insecure deep down they are on their surface narcissistic. They need to believe women are obsessed with them and obsessed with pleasing them in order to keep their ego alive.

This was just something I was ruminating over anyways rant over haha that’s just my probably oversimplified take.