First guy I ever dated: I always traveled to see him, or picked him up to take him to my place. I always paid for everything, or went dutch. We had sex on the first date, he expected it everytime we hung out. He was pornsick and obsessed with anal, tried to pressure me into it almost every time. He ended up cheating on me and I dumped him.

Second guy I dated: Traveled to see me, didn't expect sex right away, didn't even think to ask me to pay for dinner or drinks, was grossed out by anal/pornified sex, was the most emotionally invested in me, never cheated on me or even expressed interest in another woman, stayed in love with me years after we broke up.

Third guy I dated: Pretty much same as first, except he didn't technically cheat but he dumped me so he could screw other girls.

Fourth guy: Same as first.

Moral of the story, the only guy who never cheated on me was the guy who paid for everything and "courted" me.