2 years ago, specifically 3 years ago,I found out presence of my boyfriends female friend. We had arguments before but not big as this one. I never met her and it drove me crazy.

I started researching into his Instagram since I’m very very good at digging up on someone so I found out that this girl has BF and still flirting with him.

I literally went crazy. And what I could tell you is don’t ever go emotional on your BF or your SO. First, don’t tell him why you got mad but slowly take away your investments and feelings. Second, I would make make best friend or even if you don’t have one, just pretend you have one. My bf went crazy when I did the same thing. Through this, I learned that men don’t listen to verbal words but listen to actions. After this I mirror most guys actions when he shows his LVM attitude.

If guy you’re seeing suddenly brings up other girls he’s going on a date, I tell him that I’m remove myself from seeing you so he can enjoy seeing her with more given time.

Do not ever react to any form of triangulation. After this, if my bf brings up any kind of female friend, I mention my male friends. See how they react when you bring up your close male friends? Do they seem understanding? I bet not.

A year ago I happen to go on a date with this guy in early 30s, he sent me photo of the cuisine which includes other girls arms. I noticed this and started mentioning my male friend. Did he seem like he was cool with it? No.

If a guy brings up his female friend, he is very aware of what he is doing. What you do is you mirror him or block him.