WE DO NOT ACCEPT BASIC TREATMENT 👏👏👏👏👏

greenbeanbird · 2020-05-10T18:36:04+00:00

Love this, thanks for the wonderful reminder! To wit, I'd like to add that it's so important to look at data from others--how do people outside the relationship whom you love and value treat you? That's a /much/ better indicator of your value. I was always treated like the premium person I was/am by literally everyone else aside from the gaslighter I was dating because I /am/ premium. I say all this to hopefully help at least one other woman leave sooner because you all deserve the very best <3

emowhit15 · 2020-05-10T20:49:57+00:00

Needed this today!

pleaseiwanttobreath · 2020-05-11T07:40:38+00:00

I wish I had understood this sooner.

NotYourBizThrowAway · 2020-05-11T00:39:32+00:00

Absolutely correct

even_thriller · 2020-05-11T13:38:56+00:00

Seriously the basic treatment is something that all partners should do for you. You shouldn't even have to tell them. That goes without being said basic is not enough. You should be doing more. Thank you for the reminder <3

thowawaywookie · 2020-05-11T13:56:51+00:00

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flvctvatnecmergitvr_ · 2020-05-11T05:36:21+00:00

Hear hear

thowawaywookie · 2020-05-12T01:17:29+00:00

So much truth.

Trying to finalize my divorce and trying to get him to do anything is a complete mindfuck

every email or text is like pulling teeth. He'll either completely ignore or reply one word that has nothing to do with anything.

sent paperwork. no reply. I follow up. no reply. they'll he'll say he hasn't had time to sign it yet and start complaining about anything and everything: job, back, weather, etc.

I know he just tries to push me, so I blow up. So I take a deep breath and count to 1 million haha

I just remind myself that he is the only one who treats me like that. Nobody else does.

BelleVieLime · 2020-05-12T01:18:02+00:00

Whomp whomp

UnknownManipulater · 2020-05-12T08:21:30+00:00

Pathetic

Title	WE DO NOT ACCEPT BASIC TREATMENT 👏👏👏👏👏
Author	ghostieonreddit
Upvotes	607
Comments	17
Date	May 10, 2020 5:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/gh57iu/we_do_not_accept_basic_treatment/
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