Whats your description of a LVM?

yumiia · 2020-02-04T09:19:43+00:00

A Low Value Man is someone who has potential as a human being, but squanders it. A LVM may have inherent talents, good looks, and charm but doesn’t bother refining it. For example, they may be great at the piano and had lessons paid for by their family. Yet they decide to play video games instead. Or they may naturally have great hair that they don’t bother washing. This could go on and on, with not dressing well or taking proper care of their hygiene. They most likely don’t know basic life skills such as cooking and cleaning. Or they pretend not to so they can get someone else to do it for them. Usually they have a loving mother dote on them and male figures that also enjoy the same privilege, reinforcing that they “deserve this.” And that they are entitled to this emotional and physical labor from women for free. They tend to view their girlfriends and wives as a second mother though they’d rarely ever admit it because that would be emasculating. They usually have fragile egos, but despite this go for women out of their league due to ingrained male entitlement and a need to feel wanted. They then treat their partner like garbage and have the audacity to blame it on their partner when they are upset. Or they make up a sob story and expect their partner to comfort them. It’s also common for LVM to not take advice from women, make sexist remarks, and of course hold sexist beliefs. They may enjoy trolling and making people uncomfortable. They usually are control freaks as well. They may be aware that they have mental health issues, but make no moves to take care of it. Rather using their partner as a free therapist.

closetskeleton_girl · 2020-02-04T09:42:40+00:00

An LVM is a boy in a man's body. He isn't capable of being a functioning adult on his own, so instead of a partner he seeks a maid who will fuck him and clean up his messes, both literally and figuratively. He will do just about anything to avoid hard work and responsibility. Ironically, if he worked half as hard on self-improvement as he did to avoid work, he could go far.

He either can't hold down a job, or he has a shitty one because he never bothered to advance his career. He has no ambition, besides trapping a woman who will do everything for hin. He takes the path of least resistance in all things. His motto is "when life gets tough, hide."

He is a fair weather friend, only supporting you when it's easy but making himself scarce if shit gets real. He doesn't give a shit about your problems. If you're upset, sick, or otherwise struggling, he really really wants you to just shut the fuck up about it.

His friends are also LVM. If they insult or disrespect you, he will not stand up to them, he'll tell you not to be so uptight. Likewise, if he sees them cheating on their women, he'll say it's none of his business. He will do stupid shit like get drunk and get into barfights with them. He'll stay out all night and then come home and expect breakfast and hangover care.

He is manipulative. He'll lie, cheat, and steal to get his way. If you call him on his bullshit, he will NEVER own up to it. He will try to gaslight you into believing his mistakes are all your fault.

He is selfish, in life and in bed. His idea of good sex is to lay back and get a blowjob, or jackhammer unpleasantly away at you until he comes, before rolling over and going to sleep. Your pleasure isn't even a blip on his radar. His idea of a good date is you doing the things he likes to do. He resents when you express your needs, wants or likes.

He's always the victim. He didn't get fired because he screwed up, it's because his boss is an asshole. He didn't get in another car crash because he wasn't paying attention, it's the other guy's fault. His ex girlfriend didn't break up with him because he's a lazy, abusive piece of shit, it's because she's crazy.

He isn't interested in what you say, do, or think about. He loves to hear himself talk. If you manage to get a word in edgewise, you're interrupting him. He doesn't care about your dreams or aspirations, except insofar as they'll benefit him in some way.

He's a lazy, selfish, unambitious, irresponsible, verbally abusive shitbag that's a complete waste of space.

nosynobody · 2020-02-04T13:02:24+00:00

To be an LVM is anyone who won't love care and cherish you. Doesn't matter if he's a millionaire if he won't buy you a candy bar on valentine's, or remember your birthdays. Doesn't matter if he has all the time in the world but won't spend 5mins on you. Any relationship where you are putting in the 80 to make it work. To have a job, hobbies, be presentable etc are the bare minimum. What use is a rich handsome guy to me if he won't hold my hands? A LVM is a guy who doesn't value me, everything else is negotiable.

modernmedusaa · 2020-02-04T18:18:31+00:00

A typical LVM to me is:

Immature- not grown up still trying to extend his Peter panhood (childish brash humour- tests boundaries like a child)

Cowardly - can’t be upfront about intentions & runs from emotional intimacy . Deliberately grooms women & bolts when he gets too deep . Dangles the relationship carrot but doesn’t want to commit.

Exploitative - expects a 2nd mommy /chef/made but wants her to pay half or pay for him . Grooms women with low esteem /much younger than him.

Pornsick - doesn’t even need explaining ! Lack of respect for women’s boundaries stunting his ability to emotionally connect

Rude/obnoxious to women but DEMANDS the respect of a patriarchal king or he’s ready to bounce

Low educated and not seeking to improve (you can be broke and still read the news /find free books & courses online) so they’re lacking in substance

Has an inability to respect the things he supposedly values when he gets it- such as a high value woman he has a spark with- always wants more never satisfied.

A hypocrite- constantly cheating, gaslighting and lying claiming ‘where are all the women why they so superficial and mean?’. Expects more than he can give, bites off more than he can chew. Wants women to overlook his insecurities but won’t do the same to women

Can’t communicate effectively - argumentative for the sake of it- has to be right always . Always deflecting avoiding responsibility. Silent treatment/games/making you jealous etc

Fragile ego - lack of resilience, everything is always someone else’s fault and everyone must pay. Can’t take criticism or improvements (especially in the bedroom)

Low effort - in appearance, motivation , goals, health etc. Has addictions /money issues he refuses to address- but expects sympathy he won’t reciprocate. Won’t seek therapy- burdens the woman. Prefers to self loathe and project his insecurities, usually by leading women on and playing games . Basically stagnant & expects the woman to adjust.

Jealous , obsessive or violent - can’t control their temper or find ways to cope.

Title	Whats your description of a LVM?
Author	recentmay
Upvotes	16
Comments	8
Date	February 4, 2020 7:51 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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