Hopefully I can post this, it's just a vent/rant/idk. But this is the sub I needed! I have been stressing like CRAZY over this guy. Idk what to do about him. I just joined this sub a few hours ago and got the welcome message which included the few core principles here, and it literally just described him (in the bad way) lol!

Now I'm more confident in my initial decision to cut things off with him when I started getting feelings and he didnt want anything serious. I made the right decision, right??

I mean he really doesnt offer much. Also he does not chase me! Only initiated the 1st date where we met, and 2 other times he wanted to cuddle. I like being chased. A guy told me that guys actually like being chased bc they like the attention, which confused me... bc then I thought, 'oh so my guy wants me to initiate more?'.

Now I am being like his unpaid therapist, cheerleader and emotional dumpster ): its exhausting. He gives me a constant pity party, I mean I do understand his depression. Literally just now I told him I understand bc me too, and he said "no I suck. Ur awesome". sigh I hate that I like him tho ugh