“You don’t want to do that”

I went on a date with some guy I kind of know the other night. After making a few warm takes (not quite hot takes) he tried holding my hand. I told him “you don’t want to do that” and he was like “yes I do!” and didn’t seem to get that I didn’t want to hold his hand. About ten minutes later HE TRIED AGAIN and I said “really, you don’t want to do that”

Why are men so stupid lmao