A woman's perspective

yellow_black · 2016-07-17T18:02:42+00:00

Yada yada yada. Why don't you go fill out an OKCupid profile with this shite, and watch a 100 thirsty fools apply to be your roadkill.

We're not fools here. All this purity nonsense is just the hook for the bait-and-switch. You will change. Your hormones will fuck you up, especially after children. All this oh-my-future-husband nonsense goes for a toss as you become a pure mother protecting her crotch spawn and both of you become parasites on your husband. Why should some poor fool sign a legal contract that literally JAILS him for life to your vagina? Or else your husband, an equally hard working engineer, too, gets to pay you alimony, child support, et al while you get absolutely no punishment after your hormones fuck you up and you divorce him for absolutely no good reason. Not to mention : you get to keep the kids while he can go fuck himself. You have no idea how much that HURTS, to not have access to one's children. And you never have to worry about it.

And we're definitely not a dating site. GTFO, please, before I puke.

Jcart105 · 2016-07-17T18:23:24+00:00

Though I sense this is a troll post, assuming you did actually become a software developer, it still seems like you're using your salary as a leveraging bid rather than having an "equal financial responsibility" type of relationship. That is, you'll only settle for someone making AT LEAST the same amount of money as you. You also want someone with "traditional" values so you can take an early retirement as a "housewife/stay-at-home-mom" while your "beloved" husband works himself into an early grave. Good luck, I'm sure you'll find a good beta provider if everything you said is true (which I strongly doubt).

Also, hurry up honey, 31? Those eggs are getting very stale.

project_mayhem_ · 2016-07-17T19:36:18+00:00

You know what I fucking hate about women who post here? They always start out with something along the lines of "well as woman"

Bitch nobody cares about you. The only thing that is relevant is that everything you typed is a lie, mainly because you are a woman.

Why do you think anybody here gives a shit about your useless perspective?

The only thing that might even be remotely true in your troll post is the domestic violence bit, and that is because those men in your life were probably trying to do your self righteous ass a favor and put you in your place.

Who do you think you are, prancing over here and posting this shit on a Men going their own way forum? Does your retarded fat ass also jump into a lion's pit and try to convince them you are anything but a piece of meat?

Fire has some powerful uses

Yes it does, so do something useful such as travelling to Somalia where they will run a train on you before throwing a tire over you and setting it on fire, nobody wants your irrelevant opinion here.

ransay3277 · 2016-07-17T20:29:35+00:00

Any of you guys here have a crying towel? I think she needs one. Also lady... Stop projecting. You are assuming men find attractive in you what you find attractive in men. Couldn't be further from the truth. Lastly, you state you are a virgin but you have been a victim of sexual molestation?

project_mayhem_ · 2016-07-17T18:42:38+00:00

you sound like a real catch /s

csbfxe · 2016-07-17T18:55:08+00:00

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Chris_Danger_ · 2016-07-17T18:23:37+00:00

You have some interesting views that are certainly not the norm in today's world. I'm not sure you've posted in the most appropriate subreddit, or what kind of response you're expecting here.

While you have certain ideas about marriage that are mostly shaped by culture, the realities you'll face will certainly be very different. I offer you the perspective of this book (authored by a female) to reveal the nature which many here have witnessed first-hand, and why you'll encounter a lot of bitterness here, and generally men that want to avoid getting involved with women at all. (Review of the book here.)

I can perhaps offer some insight into your chastity being a deal-breaker. Very, very few men would want to endure a sexless courtship. A more minor issue is that sex is like a language, in that one gets better with exposure. So while being a virgin is an admirably virtuous quality, the practicalities are less desirable.

wser09 · 2016-07-17T19:41:41+00:00

lol!

So here we have a female who: a) is a software engineer. b) she has a six-figure salary. c) she is 31 but looks 24. d) she is an 8 or a 9. d) she is sweet and carrying and wants to form a family and be dedicated to her husband. e) she has reached sainthood. and finally f)...wait for it...wait for it....she is a virgin!

but of course she has been mistreated by men (plz don't ask why she has always chosen violent creeps for boyfriends)

Behold Gentlemen, we found it! The perfect specimen! A model looking, 130+ IQ, responsible, conservative, family oriented, successful woman at a reproductive age with a green card to paradise by St Peter himself who is also a virgin!

Hey quixotc, sorry sweety but you oversold it.

baptized-in-flames · 2016-07-17T20:12:34+00:00

GTFO pls

tiber90 · 2016-07-17T19:26:07+00:00

Dont worry darling, you got a future of dildos and cats in your life.

JP_Gringo · 2016-07-17T18:37:42+00:00

Ah yes, the moral/ethical decay of society has indeed become a viscous cycle. It's become a real sticky situation, you might say...

...Joking aside though, please let us know how many PMs you receive as a result of this post... would especially like to know how many times you get propositioned and how many times you're attacked...

Although you likely don't realize it, you've opened yourself up to a significant possibility of red-pill-inflected criticism by unintentionally validating a fair amount of the theory endorsed by some of the more misogynistic elements in the virtual environment we might broadly refer to as "the manosphere..."

Your post is a bit of a rarity here, in such a way that a nuanced survey of the reactions it provokes might offer valuable insight into the collective conscience of this little corner of contemporary culture...

Saintmyname · 2016-07-17T18:37:50+00:00

There's no way in hell a woman wrote this. There's accountability, reason, restraint and romance.

JunhoSun · 2016-07-17T19:00:56+00:00

I hope you get what you sought after and good luck.

TVTestPattern · 2016-07-17T21:20:13+00:00

Ok I'll bite...

So... what you're telling us is that you are an HB9, senior software engineer/day trader earning 6 figures, who is a shining pillar of principles and values, being ridiculed as a serial virgin who wants to worship the divinity that lies in each of us, despite having to overcome domestic violence and child molestation.

Anything else, or is that it?

As long as you're at it, why not include your scientific breakthroughs in pediatric cancer and your charity work which provides food and shelter to homeless refugees?

That sounds pretty good...

In fact this post makes you sound so good I can see why you wouldn't want to settle for any of us poor, stupid men who are seriously lacking in ethics/morals/character. I think you should just marry yourself... you're the only one awesome enough to make it work apparently.

By design the relationship between a man and a woman in a committed relationship is like no other and I don't think any other relationship like parent-child or between friends can compare.

Reach this conclusion through your vast experience being a parent did you?

Typical... no agency whatsoever. It's a sacred relationship "by design" right? You're not responsible... things were just designed this way.

Fucking Christ on a stick... even here in /r/mgtow This shit is everywhere...

T0000009 · 2016-07-18T03:11:27+00:00

RULES:

We will allow no:

Bullshit
Hug Boxing
Concern Trolling

Zombocom1911 · 2016-07-17T18:18:15+00:00

However, I am finding out that men do not value this quality these days. Some guys outright told me being a virgin is a deal breaker. Other times I have been ridiculed. Nobody seems to understand the strength of character and self restraint it takes to refrain yourself for more than 10 yrs when your friends are going at it left and right.

Bad boys like bad girls. I am not even close to being a saint and am not attracted to any woman pretending to be a saint either. In fact, I am really NOT attracted to a woman who is repressing anything about her own sexuality, just to be someone they think their future partner would like. Sexual repression is ugly to me, in any form. By the way, you should only be looking for virgin men , because you are forcing yourself to be so pure and innocent yourself.

Everyone should try to find a partner who is similar to them, and only then will they be able to truly get along and understand each other, since I am a very bad boy, I love very bad girls. It's only natural.

You are holier than thou to nearly every man because 99.9999% of men are not virgins. Why do you hold yourself to higher standards , instead, try to find out how the men you are truly attracted to behave in THEIR own lives, and then be like them. There is absolutely no shame in being the same as the man you want to be in love with, Like attracts like. Try to imagine what he likes, and reverse the roles, so the exact same things apply to you.

And if you NOT looking for a virgin man as your partner, then what makes you think you should not be just like him? What kind of hypocrisy is that?

Title	A woman's perspective
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	July 17, 2016 5:45 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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