Alright nowhere else to turn and feel like I get you guys. So I’m not asking to bash my wife just really hung up on a critical decision.

Married, almost 4 years, known her for many, it’s not going to work out between us. 2 kids, very young, ones old enough and insightful enough to understand.

I’m ready to divorce for myself but really don’t know how I feel about how it will impact my kids. I grew up in an unhappy home so did my wife and our parents stuck it out so that’s all I know but maybe explains a lot. I worry that if I follow through, my kids will grow up feeling like family and love is disposable. They will feel like if two grown ass adults, their heroes, couldn’t get it together then how could they. Wonderful by Everclear really hits home. I don’t care about the finances of divorce. Just worried about my kids. Any advice brothers?