First of all I'm not mgtow, but I agree with a lot of your lines of thinking, maybe I'm red pill/ purple pill, however I have a problem, me and my girl had some problems recently
So her mum is saying she needs to choose between drama and me which is fucked up btw, her mom's reasoning was she doesn't see her enough(mind you I see my girl once a week maybe?) And she came over to my place to tell me this, I told her to do drama and then after December when it's over we would continue to date and such we just wouldn't see each other often, now here's what confused me, she made a comment saying, maybe this is a sign of something(inferring we should break up) so I said to her don't beat around the bush, if you're gonna end our relationship end here and now, I don't want any games" then she started crying like a child and claimed she didn't want to break up After she calmed down she started suggesting a break and the first thought into my head was " she's got another guy lined up or something and she's done with me" I'm emotionally attached however if she left it wouldn't be the end of me, I can handle it, however her actions scream, I wanna leave however I don't have the balls to end it myself, am I mistaken? Any guys who have handled bullshit like this have any advice? I know this isn't a support reddit or anything but I feel some more experienced mgtow could help me out
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I usually do but I'm not a very trusting person, I'm the most cynical person I've ever met and I feel I don't trust her enough when she's given me reason to, I know without a doubt if me and this girl break up I'm going full mgtow, but I want things to work out, no marriage maybe just happiness between me and her
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Pull back? Howso? Giving space and ignoring her?
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Appreciate it, I hate the idea of a break though cause hoes use it as an excuse to cheat, but I guess it would allow me to see how things stand as she would expect there to be no consequences
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But she's already unstable enough at tines, she constantly worries I'm gonna break up with her when things look bad(drama I typically avoid by not reacting or ignoring her tantrums) is this break a bad idea if she seems already a little unstable/scared about me and her breaking up? I have to say I do care about her, but my first priority is my own happiness
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Yeah I have been doing most of the work.. but I've changed that, now I just fuck her and try to have fun. The second drama starts I disengage and ignore her, I guess I'll follow through with the break thing
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Welp I'm 19 she's 17, consent laws mean her parents could pull statutory rape on me if we broke up so I'm stuck until she turns 18, I'm out of high school and I don't want things to end necessarily, I'm content with her, sex is good, she's attractive and does plenty of things to keep me happy, and I took her virginity, however she's super insecure and it sounds like she wants out but it's all confusing
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Any other military service that's like that? I've considered the air force before Won't I be safe assuming she reaches 18 before I break things off? Then I could slowly start beingg a shirt BF (acting beta) until she breaks up with me?
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Damn, anything else I should know about them?
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I'm not so tough physically,(5'6 170 pounds) however that can be changed mentally, I've been through some shit and I know I will pass the psychological examination, my only problem is I'm bad at cardio, I respond fast to danger and I don't let emotions get in the way, I've gotten into a hit and run accident before which did 5k damage to my car, my first response was to take a Pico f the license plate and follow the guy I didn't freak out until I got home later that day, I'd say I just need to know military procedure, discipline and work out my body some more. I found my grandmother dead(not that I knew at first) in my living room at 15 and I handled it better than my entire family, I got the police on scene immediately and while waiting I checked for a pulse and breathing the entire time, I trust few people and that had kept me safe in life, and I've only depended on myself in my later years of life I think I have what it takes but let's hope things don't get bad enough where I have to join! I'd prefer stay a citizen
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Took it in highschool, not great, but I can pass by and communicate basic information in emergency situations, but I'm gonna start working out more and brush up on my French just in case my (soon to be?) Ex girlfriend tries to ruin my life for attention, God bless you all for recommending joining the FFL I will miss my father but my family is small and I will be okay, anyone know about transportation of things you own before you join the FFL I've got about 48k worth of personal belongings/money, I would assume I'd have to abandon it all. I could fuck prostitutes and killing someone possibly innocent, I think I could do, I would trust my commanding officer to have made the right choice in order to save the most lives, I don't have all the information, I will trust those who so Killing a child however if I was asked would be too far, I can find no justification for that..
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Thanks for being straightforward and honest, I mean what do you mean find something meaningful, currently I work as a custodian on the night shift and I make plenty of money but in my small town no one works graveyard shift so it's hard to meet people/find something meaningful, maybe I just need to find what it is that I need, before I started working full time I thought military would be good for me, maybe I should reconsider and try some type of military
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Problem is, in my state 16 and 18 is legal 17 and 19 is not How's that make any sense.... I'll do the pull out method and pray that works, exactly make it her idea to leave, no more sex, I'm gonna act as beta as possible, how am I not taking it seriously though if I might ask?
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Why have so many people said this? I mean is my situation that dire?..
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I asked if there was another guy and she said no, we live in a small town and I have the same feeling man, like I wish I had a way of finding out, I know it would hurt if she was cheating but I'd rather know as compared to not knowing..
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You know I'll do that, I remember seeing that from breaking bad I can't believe I didn't remember that, she's 100% cool with me looking at her phone, thanks, I'm not looking to end this relationship, only improve it/end it if she's cheating or acting like a hoe, any problems with that mini GPS device in the winter? I imagine they make ones that won't get messed up with snow or cold temp but idk
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