One of my best friends kinda lost the communication and the overall vibe with me because he was in a relation all the time 4-5 years ago. I got pretty salty back then because he kind of let me down a million times from that point on but wanted attention when he "needed" it. We were really close and it was always a matter of whats going on with him and her and it affected his mood all the time. I tryed to deal with it but ultimately it was a pain in the ass for me.

Now the same thing is going on and i swear to god the first day where he saw his next relation kinda going down (he didnt see it coming) he ringed me up. I feel now kind of "fuck off" he kinda never was available without her, was kinda bitchy to me because his relation made him mad all the time and now when the next one is gone he "needs me". He never called me in the last months, even when i called him a couple times.

Its another thing for me, most people if you take the red pill just want something from you when they "need" it. So when a friend is in a relation, suddenly he doesn't need you anymore and then he might wonder why you don't wanna go on when its going to shit with the girl. It feels pathetic and the cycle will just repeat whenever he gets a new girl.