I'm not gonna rag on the girl that posted this, just going to say she is what some lucky guy will hold, love and cherish in the future on their wedding day after she's done with college and an initial working period. Fun times ahead.

How do I (18f) move on after being caught having sex at school? /r/relationship_advice My bf (18m) and I got caught and sent to an alternative school for 40 days. Thankfully it won’t show up on my college record since this is the first time I’ve ever been in any trouble. I’ve never even gotten detention, and I’m near the top of my class.

I was just diagnosed with Bipolar 2 disorder, and my psychiatrist claims that I was having a manic episode which is why I did what I did. I don’t really know why I agreed to do it. I think I just wanted to please my bf, but I did consent to it. I’m extremely embarrassed and ashamed. I don’t even want to go back to school. I know everyone knows. I want to disappear.

My parents have been treating me like I’m disgusting. They make me sit on towels so I don’t touch the furniture of the car. They exclaim loudly in public places that I had sex at school whenever we get into an argument. My dad has told so many relatives. I feel like the 40 days at the alternative school is hell enough. They took away most of my electronics. I actually sneaked my phone out so I can get some advice.

My forty days already started and I’m a week in and I’m terrified that I’m going to be bullied. My bf is actually proud that we had sex at school and is telling everyone. I don’t want to go to school, but I don’t want to stay at home. I know I made a mistake and I know I will never make it again. I don’t understand why my parents are being so mean. They are literally treating me like I’m a cockroach. They won’t even let me eat diner with them. I have to eat at the kitchen counter while they eat at the table. They’ve been yelling at me for every little thing. They also have been calling me “bipo” (short for bipolar) whenever I start crying because they’re yelling. I know they have a right to be mad at what I did. I know I need to be punished, but this is too much. They could just take away my electronics and sit down with me and discuss why I did what I did and how wrong it was, but the didn’t.

I really need some advice. I’m scared.

TLDR: we got caught and got sent to an alternative school. My bf and parents are telling everyone they can and I’m so scared to go back to school. My parents are also treating me like I’m disgusting and are acting like they hate me.

Update: I am breaking up with my bf on Monday in person. I already sent him an angry text about how he needs to stop bragging because he’s being an asshole.

Update: I’m putting my phone back so I’ll be silent for awhile. And yes my (ex) bf was also sent to the alternative school.