Another One

rmullen1282 · 2019-10-19T19:51:52+00:00

That's how fucked our system is. Not only should he NOT be forced to pay child support, but the whore mother should have to reimburse him for all the years he took care of that kid, food, clothing, schooling, school supplies etc. Such bullshit!

fiZee-x · 2019-10-19T19:22:18+00:00

In this case the only way to prevent such travesty is full monk. Avoid women on a social basis with the exception of family or unless you must interact with coworkers, customers, etc. Misery is every mans fate when dealing with such creatures so remain vigilant.

CpuDoc67 · 2019-10-19T19:23:38+00:00

I've heard of that crap before. If you act in the role of the father for X number of years you are stuck. That is a damn nightmare 😡

ratchet_hd · 2019-10-19T20:48:22+00:00

I was ordered to pay and took 7 years to remove it even proving I was in Kuwait when the kid was conceived. Floriduh family courts treated me like a monster, luckily all 3 of my commands were understanding and let me take off for that bs and even had a JAG accompany me once which is when the state backed off. Its hell on men. Effin you get for the effin you didnt give!

DangZagnut · 2019-10-19T19:41:34+00:00

Good thing this will never happen to me because alligators are wonderful feeding machines.

MikeRocksBoat · 2019-10-19T21:07:20+00:00

There is no doubt in my mind that as long as this socio-legal system continues, even GYOW wont be enough. They will make "Sponsor a thot and her spawn" mandatory.

ken_oath_mate · 2019-10-19T22:49:56+00:00

How does this not violate the 13th amendment?

The courts are literally forcing the man to work (if he doesn't work, he can't pay, so he goes to jail) to provide for some kid that is not his. Sounds like "involuntary servitude" to me.

delongpike · 2019-10-20T04:16:34+00:00

Courts heavily favor the woman in any case.

My story. I knocked uglies with a woman but did not dicide to stay around for a relationship. 6 years later she claims I am the father of her 4 year old child AND that the stated father was not.

This started a series of events of the real father losing visitation and me being called into family court for assignment of payments. I refused to go to family court in the neighboring state so they had my state act on their behalf. I was told to go to the office of children and youth to pick up paperwork and visit with the state – I again refused. I was told I would be served by the Sheriff’s office and 3 weeks later they finally caught up with me and I was ordered by the court tho children and youth.

When I got to the office of children and youth, they DID NOT WANT TO HEAR WHAT I HAD TO SAY. Period. I was told to chose between 2 “blood type matching tests” or a “DNA test” and was told several times the DNA test was very expensive should I be found to be the father.

I asked if I could pick all three tests, knowing I was not the father, and a supervisor (woman) came in and read me the riot act asking me who I thought I was etc. etc. Knowing they must have a legal representative overseeing the office I told her I wanted someone to call the same and ASK if I could request all three tests. She stormed out of the room. She then called a meeting of counselors. I waited 45 minutes and she finally came back in and said “You can request all three tests, but when you are found to be the father YOU will have to pay the bill for the same”. So I signed for all three tests on me, the mother, and the child.

The mother and I had no problem giving blood, but it turned out the child was not allowing them to draw the blood. Both the state and the mother called me and literally begged to forgo the testing and proceed to a jury court. I said no. Then the state called and said I was not being fair to the child and that they needed to bring in a specialist from NYC to draw the child’s blood, then again asked me to instead proceed to a jury court. I refused. I was told at the time, with the specialist involved, the cost would be more than $5000 dollars and I would likely be stuck with the bill. I did not relent. 4 weeks later the specialist was able to meet with the child and draw the blood. When the results came in the first “blood type tests” were tossed out by children and youth, and the DNA result showed there was a 99.9995% chance the child was NOT mine.

I then went to a hearing to close the case, and since I was a single father with 2 kids at the time I did not take a lawyer due to the other costs I had already incurred, instead I took my lawyer’s advice and asked that the case be dismissed “with prejudice”. The county court lawyer then said if such a motion were to be approved he would ask for a jury trial. I was not wise enough at the time to understand he likely could not do the same, and the judge at the hearing refused to dismiss the case with prejudice – meaning the mother could come back to me with further claims at any time.

I wrote the judge twice over the years asking he close the case with prejudice, both times I received a letter back refusing to hold a hearing for the same. So I had a DNA test clearly showing I was not the father and yet the state refused to act on my behalf. This case soured me on state or governmental bureaucracy moving forward in my life. Men are the tax paying wallets of women and the state.

ronoda12 · 2019-10-19T23:51:42+00:00

I urge all men to do mandatory paternity test before signing on the birth certificate.

Zilo88 · 2019-10-19T22:09:26+00:00

I'd burn everything I owned.

den-kun · 2019-10-19T19:46:55+00:00

At that point, I’d just have to move to Mexico

BetaBeGone · 2019-10-19T21:06:17+00:00

STOP CALLING KIDNAPPERS RANSOM CHILD SUPPORT!!!

SpinPlates · 2019-10-20T01:32:23+00:00

This is exactly why MGTOW is shamed. Because without men footing the bill for single mothers, the government will have to step in and give more welfare.

If men keep waking up to the bullshit western society is putting us through I see a "bachelor tax" coming down the pipe.

ken_oath_mate · 2019-10-19T19:51:26+00:00

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KaitouNala · 2019-10-19T21:22:11+00:00

The only correct move at that point is to skip country to one that does not have an extradition treaty with america IMO.

krisdang111 · 2019-10-20T01:42:01+00:00

As a Non-American, I must say your system is fucked up.

ToddTheOdd · 2019-10-20T00:32:30+00:00

As an infertile man that can never have kids, I've never had to worry about this. At least the "I'm pregnant and it's yours" thing.

I never told any of my girlfriends about my infertility. I was always waiting to see if one would try that shit on me.

Now that I've gone my own way, it doesn't matter anymore... bit still. 😈🤪

Encrypted587 · 2019-10-20T00:19:13+00:00

Sad it really is a woman’s world isn’t it. Poor guy :(

thelookoutbelow · 2019-10-20T02:08:33+00:00

It's called "accepting a fatherly role" and exists in more places than just Florida. Watch your backs out there

hypnotized · 2019-10-19T23:17:11+00:00

Wtf am I reading

JihadNinjaCowboy · 2019-10-20T00:10:38+00:00

I would find the person who is in the decision making position for such a travesty and I'd give them a chance to make things right.

After that, its "Anything Goes".

Bayonet_Hipshot · 2019-10-20T01:08:30+00:00

Monk mode is the only way forward for men.

Chakra_Devourer · 2019-10-20T03:52:07+00:00

This is wrong. They all know this is wrong. This is perversion of justice.

yotsmungand90 · 2019-10-20T07:02:02+00:00

And then they wonder why people snap.

MechaMatrix · 2019-10-20T04:00:45+00:00

Honestly if I was him, I would straight just fly out of the country and not come back.

wutc · 2019-10-19T22:12:09+00:00

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LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-10-19T19:51:58+00:00

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7591411/Florida-man-ordered-pay-child-support-DNA-test-proves-not-father.html

It's not even the mother's fault or the judge's but it is the Florida Revenue Service who appealed the decision of the judge. They just want their cut. Greedy bastards.

NotGrounded1 · 2019-10-19T20:02:34+00:00

He found out he was not the father when he tried to get some custody of the child and the court ordered the child support for years said "prove your the dad" and he did with a DNA test than showed he was not the father. So he had been paying child support for a kid that was not his and he had no contact with because he was named on the birth certificate. The court then says keep paying for a child that is not his that he has no contact with and since he's not the father can't get to be the father...

If this is not proof of an out-of-control and anti-father family court system I don't know what is!

RealBiggly · 2019-10-20T04:51:40+00:00

This is entirely normal if he was married to the woman at the time she got pregnant. You accept responsibility for any future pregnancy the moment you marry her.

human304 · 2019-10-20T09:08:24+00:00

Once that Chad's spawn calls you " Daddy "
Be sure your life is over.

proactive-defense · 2019-10-20T11:58:06+00:00

Clown world.

antifeminist3 · 2019-10-20T17:42:14+00:00

The state asked him to sign a claim that he will be responsible. He did because he trusted his wife. Only the mother/women knows that she didn't cheat on him, and so only she should sign the form. The purpose of getting the man to sign the form despite him not knowing if the kid is his, is to force him to be responsible for the woman's cheating.

Zinista · 2019-10-19T22:39:43+00:00

Ouch

BendekStormsaver · 2019-10-20T07:39:39+00:00

Dude looks like Lucky from King of The Hill...

Zhytom · 2019-10-20T09:59:36+00:00

I'm not even surprised anymore. That's how fucked up the legal system is. Don't get yourselves into shit like this, folks.

bobgray1 · 2019-10-20T10:58:09+00:00

When will man stop living with women? When will they understand it's a shitshow and they only lose in the end?

LuvMeTendieLuvMeTrue · 2019-10-20T13:04:51+00:00

There's only one rule regarding women: AVOID

senior_chop · 2019-10-20T14:05:30+00:00

Man up! Marry! You are all incels! Who hurt you??? Puagh, mgtow for life

DigitalScetis · 2019-10-20T14:32:03+00:00

You'd have to think that if the real father had better income than the man on the birth certificate, the thot would pretend that the guy on the birth certificate didn't exist, and go after the real father.

In fact, if you take the state of legal paternity today to its logical conclusion, whoever the biological father is, or the legal father is, really doesn't matter too much. It is whatever father the thot declares by arbitrary decree, meaning any of the myriad of men she slept with could be declared the father by her, meaning that whatever man has the greatest income will have to pay.

And then we wonder about the rampant cheating? The rapacious hypergamy? The divorce raping? And all of that?

The law gives wives and mothers an incentive to sleep with as many strange men as she can, because if the husband, or the baby daddy, or any of her lovers don't pan out economically over time, she can dump the financial burden on the man who does pan out economically.

roy28282 · 2019-10-20T17:05:04+00:00

He will go to jail if he doesn't pay. The state and a woman cucked him into slavery.

blondierespondy · 2019-10-24T04:25:16+00:00

He probably didn’t go to his court date.

Thirtysomething2019 · 2019-11-08T00:55:32+00:00

Put me in jail. I'll go on hunger strike.

Title	Another One
Author	formerlydeaddd
Upvotes	761
Comments	101
Date	October 19, 2019 7:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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