Anyone been through therapy with a female psychologist?

lostapwbm · 2017-09-29T16:01:24+00:00

What you are feeling: Erotic transference.

You are not “in love” with your psychotherapist; you are obsessed with the idea that another person can give you what has been missing in your life because of what your parents—especially your father—failed to give you in your childhood.

"What should I do?"

You're paying her. Tell her you're catching the feels and that you need to talk your way past it.

Marque01 · 2017-09-29T15:30:46+00:00

Ask in the 2X Chromozone forum. I'm sure they'll give you solid advice :)

dilithiumdick · 2017-09-29T16:01:13+00:00

Lol. This is really not the place for this question. Find the appropriate sub for this to get actual advice. But I would suggest staying with her for your therapy if she helps. Any "feelings" are probably coming out of neediness. They come and go. Talk to other females maybe. I don't know your mental state, so I won't say any more.

nepomuk167 · 2017-09-29T16:45:33+00:00

Tell her and post the result.

TheAccidentOf85 · 2017-09-29T17:51:56+00:00

Yes, my marriage counselor. Got my then wife to go twice. Because the marriage counselor was agreeing with me that my wifes cheating was wrong, wife threw a fit. Filed for divorce soon after.

I kept going to that same therapist since she saw what my wife was. She believed my wife to be BPD. She was a good therapist, probably helped me from killing anyone. Saw her til I felt confident again. I would still go see her if she wasnt so damned expensive.

Its good that you found a good therapist that makes you feel better, kept you from suicide, and helped you succeed. But thats where it ends. She is your therapist, and now that you are feelig good about yourself you are conflating it with feelings for your therapist. Dude, you are not in love with your therapist, you are in love with yourself and who you have become.

KeyHoleJesus · 2017-09-29T16:08:11+00:00

Don't forget that she is being paid to treat you that way. it feels natural and easy because she is clearly good at her job, and if she is as good as you say then she should be able to help you through understanding why you would catch the feels with her. I don't think its impossible that she could be feeling the same way, but its already an unfair dynamic, do you really want to date your psychiatrist? Imagine the arguments, good grief.

SirTopKekington · 2017-09-29T15:28:29+00:00

techstyles · 2017-09-29T16:02:32+00:00

Find another therapist. Leave those feelings you caught behind, they are bad for you...

Lifeboatinthedark · 2017-09-29T18:16:40+00:00

Called transferance. Its normal in therapy and you should talk your way through it. Thats what they are trained to do. And I can tell you it isnt the first time its happened to her. It will not come as a shock.

Spacecowboy32 · 2017-09-29T20:40:31+00:00

Tough Love: She is not attracted to you. The reason why is because she has listened to all of your problems and therefore views you as a weak and inferior male. Women expect Superman-level mental fortitude in mates and any time you have an emotional moment in front of one they become less and less attracted to you. Also, she is your therapist. That shit only happens in movies, typically horror ones by the way.

Simpsgalore · 2017-09-29T16:30:04+00:00

Haha wtf

Bartand · 2017-09-29T17:37:04+00:00

Lol, what a loser. Change her for a male therapist. Enough of the blue pill brainwashing already.

Downhere_Seeds · 2017-09-29T16:29:02+00:00

It sounds like you are paying a woman to make you feel good about yourself, something a man does with a prostitute. Coincidentally this is also how addictions form, it starts with some good feelings that you want more of. You may need another psychologist to break you of your feelings for this one.

BooDoug · 2017-09-29T17:51:57+00:00

Are you sure that was you who feeling?

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owninfools007 · 2017-09-29T18:28:18+00:00

You don’t ever CROSS the line. Sounds like you already have and need to cut her loose. Never mix pleasure with business. It happened unexpectedly and with the connection you guys have built I think it’s only natural to feel that way but it’s not going to go anywhere so don’t try. Then again, assuming your MGTOW I don’t see it being a problem. The-Rapist.

sidel3 · 2017-09-29T21:22:06+00:00

You need to learn self actualization and stop trying to fulfill any external validation throughout women and society.

Title	Anyone been through therapy with a female psychologist?
Author	mgtow1234
Upvotes	11
Comments	22
Date	September 29, 2017 3:23 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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