The mother of my child left me in January last year. We have a 3 year daughter.

She now has another bf, which she started dating in... well the same month she left me, January last year.

My shortcomings were lack of a high paying job and social status, I am otherwise above average looking and shredded.

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The things that's stoping me from completely getting her out of my head is that I have to keep seeing her because of my little girl. Every time I drop of my kid I see this guys car in front of her house, every time it's like a slap to the face or a knife in the back. Seeing her all cold and like everything is fine, no big deal, pisses me off to no end, knowing some dipshit is inside with my daughter makes me want to strangle her.

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If I didn't have a kid with her, this would be no problem and the bitch could eat rocks, i could care less, but because I have a kid with here, it's like seeing some trash bag who did you wrong and try to pretend everything is peachy is destroying me inside.

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As we live in a country where the pay is not great, I told her that if we were to have a child we would move to Sweden for a more stable financial live, she agreed and made all these promises. Now I can't go to sweden because I have a child and I cannot leave my child.

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So I am either left with a choice, move to another country and actually be able to finance a proper life, but not see my child or stay here in dirt poorsville and be a fucking bum. Having this limitation now on my life is another reason why I cannot stand to see her face.

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Any advice on what I should do? I love my daughter... I just don't know what choices to make here.

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