I've noticed two things that get men to do dumb things: 1. Thirst for pussy and 2. Getting drunk. I threw out #2 over a decade ago, and #1 a couple years ago. I have my doubts that grotesque women could manage to get laid without alcohol. Alcohol reduces your inhibitions. It can make a disgusting woman look better and better. I really don't miss drinking. It was causing problems for me, so I got rid of it. That was a good decision. Of course, I don't make the choices for other men. I just wanted to put it out there that jettisoning alcohol is a viable option. If you choose to, you'll be fine without it. Along with dating and marriage, alcohol is something I've kicked out of my life.