So a little background. I have been dating a woman for nearly 3 years. We have 2 toddlers. And she basically nags and belittles me 80% of the time. Tells me I don't do anything for the family unit. I work fulltime, come home to make dinner, dishes, watch the kids, play with the kids, baths, pjs, putting to bed, all the middle the night feeding of the youngest and did the same with the older one; often times laundry, house repair and upkeep, tending to her massaging needs, weekends I do all those things, and get get up to feed the kids breakfast while she sleeps in until 12 many mornings.

So she tried to leave and decided not too. But continues to threatening to leave with the kids, yell and nag, complain, etc me anyways. (She believes that she tried to repair the relationship. But the was basically dying from an incurable disease the moment she threatened to call the police if I came home to the house that I purchased for us. I pay all the families major bills, mortgage, power, water, trash, internet, homeowners insurance, and healthcare for the kids. She is part time online teacher. Many times over spending and I end up having to save her.

Majority of the time asking me to do stuff for her and of course not doing it like she wants. She verbally attacks me. I have been beaten down, my self worth is nearly nothing.

There has been many times she verbally abused me in the morning and on my 1 hour drive to work I wish I could just die. Abusing me thru text at work. Threatening to leave thru texts.

I didn't want to split a hamburger and fries with her one night, because leftovers in the fridge needed to be eaten. The first words out of her mouth was, "Bullshit, you put something in the burger didn't you?"

Over the last 3 years I have been kicked out of her place 3 times. Each time she would call back crying and wanting me to come back all while still blaming everything on me.

I have been working with a lawyer for months. Gathering texts, audio and photoes. She is angry that I didn't tell her because I knew she would try something or guilt me out of it. She filed for child support but cancelled it. All I could think is until the next. It could be a tomorrow, a week, a month. Everyday I drive up to the house I find myself checking to see if her car is in the driveway because I was afraid she just up and decided to leave with the kids. I was quilted out of completing the filing months ago and that day I don't think I've ever been so depressed in all my life.

She was served with court papers today. I am going for Custody of the kids, I have all incoming and outgoing phones being recorded. So just more ammunition for me in court. Now I have to live in the house until court date because I set up a radius limit on the kids in the court order.

A man only has so much to give before he is left with nothing. Then the women like leave because you are no longer the man I once knew. Because we are die and you killed us with neediness and you pettiness.