Does anyone else here have this issue?

Bartand · 2016-08-17T19:36:44+00:00

Get a fleshlight, everything will change.

raven982 · 2016-08-17T19:49:23+00:00

Nope, pretty much all desire to "seduce" fell of drastically when I hit my 30s. It doesn't grow, it becomes easier.

Sex is like a drug, if your deprived of it you'll crave it until you get over the hump; then the craving goes away the longer you go without it. Plus getting older just naturally lowers your sex drive.

Thinkpadoutlaw · 2016-08-17T19:51:58+00:00

It reads like you are attempting to place yourself back into a social construct that you don't believe in. Why?

By stepping outside of the construct you have increased the number of options YOU (specifically you, not generally speaking, considering what you have stated) have in life. Now learn to utilize and exercise this new found freedom. Go beyond thinking outside the box, and start living outside of the box. Do things, activities, or even people YOU want to do, or at least give a whole hearted effort to do so.

If you want to date...

Fuck online dating. Find an attractive girl , and ask her to accompany you to an activity or event YOU WANT TO ATTEND. What is there to lose? Keep in mind all downside risk, and behave in a preventative manner, but do it or at least give it a try.

Most importantly, your new way of thinking is NOT an ISSUE, It's a new found FREEDOM. As long as you frame your way of thinking or chosen lifestyle as an issue, you will see yourself as a weirdo, outlier, etc.

Live.

CinematicRacer14 · 2016-08-17T20:10:05+00:00

So go pump and dump some hot chicks, problem solved. Just don't live with them of get married or impregnate them.

Brokemgtow · 2016-08-17T20:23:05+00:00

I have this issue.

I just dont have relationships with women . I also have sex with escorts when i can, not all escorts are lifeless whores, some can strike great conversations, buy you things for your birthday, as well as be super happy to see you. Go for something like that.

The truth is we have to put this energy to good use. I dont know, maybe save some money and go on vacation, maybe you need to associate with other women from other cultures. kill the desensitization of your own circle of friends .

Good luck

gravelheart · 2016-08-17T21:38:27+00:00

[no] meaningless sex ... [no] relationships ... [no jerking off]

Then have meaningful sex with hookers.

Realise that any "meaning" sex has is created by you.

2016-08-17T19:40:36+00:00

practice a martial art diligently with all your spirit. It is just as good a release as sex

Fraga123 · 2016-08-17T19:52:24+00:00

Take up dahlia breeding or woodworking.

Dokushindansei · 2016-08-17T20:53:03+00:00

I understand exactly how you feel. I cannot stand night clubs or bars. What I would suggest you do is Branch out the larger events that you would find much more fun than a bar. In my area, we get a lot of free concerts, places to go on meet up.com, or even finding some activities outdoors that you'd like to do, like going to the beach or hiking or riding a bicycle. Churches sometimes offer things too, though it gets a little more spiritual than some might like. Go to something for the sake of having fun, and not for anything else. It's not going to do you much good to go to a Stitch & Bitch meeting if you don't like to sew. At worst, it might not be your thing, but it's far better than a bar. At best, you have a lot of fun in a social environment, and perhaps even meet a new friend or two.

Go where you want to go. Not where PUA's tell you to go

CClavin · 2016-08-19T03:03:01+00:00

4. Monk Mode celibate style (aka no sex at all)

5. FABULOUS Mode

Oversia · 2016-08-18T17:42:25+00:00

It seems you want a harem? The only way for a normal guy to have that is hookers. Find a collection of them. But to me why or how is that even worth it at this point? You need a woman for what? To feel validated? To give life meaning? To have sex with?

What exactly are you looking for that only being in numerous non exclusive relationships with woman can give you and why is that so important and how did you come to those conclusions?

The more questions you ask and the deeper you dig the more pointless and absurd dating online dating and things like that become.

2016-08-17T21:21:55+00:00

No.. don't have that problem. Meaningless sex all the time sounds pretty boss, to be perfectly honest.

logophiliac · 2016-08-17T21:28:34+00:00

This has got to be a troll.

Does anyone else here have this issue?

1: I don't like the PUA lifestyle. I don't like going out to general population bars and clubs every weekend. I don't like having meaningless sex all the time.

2: I don't like exclusive relationships.

3: I don't like the idea of going into monk mode. I'm not into watching porn or jerking off.

Comments

Title	Does anyone else here have this issue?
Author	CinematicRacer14
Upvotes	6
Comments	40
Date	August 17, 2016 7:04 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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