I think it's important to remember that, you are simply a tool in many women's eyes. You're not a human being with emotions, feelings, thoughts. You're simply a disposable tool that she can use and then throw away when it has served it's purpose.

For example: a few years ago a girl at worked asked me to go out for a drink with her on Friday night. I did not know this girl very well, had never had a real conversation with her, but she seemed keen and had a nice body, so I agreed and on Friday night we went for a pint together after work.

During the course of the evening, she invited me back to her place to stay the night. So naturally, I agreed, as I was still a pathetic simp back then, with no ability to turn down the offer of sex from a woman.

So, we went back to her place. As soon as she is through the door, she picks up her phone and calls a man and says something along the lines of "I told you didn't I" and then put the phone to me to say hello. It was a man's voice, quite calm and chilled out asking me who I was etc.

I replied that I was her new boyfriend, he asked if I was staying the night, I said yes and handed the phone back to the girl. She made some snarky comment to him and hung up laughing.

I asked her who that man was, she said "my ex boyfriend, he told me I could not find another man if we broke up, I just wanted to prove him wrong". We then went to bed and had sex, and I left to go home the next morning.

On monday morning back in the office, she called me over to her desk, and told me she was now back with her ex, and thanked me for helping her teach him a lesson.

[puts on Kevin from the Wonder Years voice] it was in that moment that I realised I had been used like a tool for her to get revenge on her boyfriend and teach him a lesson.