Dont know what to do

gtowerthrowaway · 2019-12-06T09:44:43+00:00

Ok, I'll say it. You're not MGTOW, you just got dumped. You'll be with the next woman who gives you a whiff of attention, and if you go Army, you'll be one of the divorce raped guys that Popp and TFM are always talking about.

If I were you, I'd spend some time cruising these boards, watching YouTubers like Coltaine and Sandman, and thinking about what's really important in life before even talking to another woman.

Good luck, brother.

2019-12-06T09:16:46+00:00

Stop drinking till you sort your head out. Gym and avoid drugs and alcohol, eat healthy and do a hobby you've never done before. It'll pass

faecci · 2019-12-06T08:53:24+00:00

do u want to be divorced too

MoonshineGuy859 · 2019-12-06T10:36:17+00:00

I'd bet the shirt on my back that she fucked other men during the 2 years of your long distance relationship. I don't mean to stick the knife in, but it's important to realise what women are like. Only then can you protect yourself effectively from them.

SwimmingRip · 2019-12-06T09:50:47+00:00

Join the army

GrisBosque · 2019-12-06T10:07:51+00:00

Its called: "Going on with your life."

best done with a "give-a-shit" attitude in cases like these...

I'll give you a short-cut;

Every one of these gets less important until eventually you realize that you dont even need a beer....

And about forty years out, you realize you just repeatedly trashed yourself wanting something in someone that really doesnt exist, and you wonder how you could have been so bleeping stupid so long?

And then the beer gets more enjoyable with out the schittrip of an excuse to drink it.

I'd rather lose a woman than a dog....

YoungKingFCB · 2019-12-06T10:40:58+00:00

Funny. I've been messing with this girl (without even making much effort) and she fell for me. She left her boyfriend of two years and admitted to me that she haulted her marriage with him because she met me. I'd feel bad for the guy if he wasnt such a wimp but I really didn't do much. Just didn't treat her like a queen and she keeps wanting me to smash. She ain't yours, your turn was just over.

OverlordWhiteWolf · 2019-12-06T09:50:14+00:00

You want to marry a girl that didn’t want anything to do with you? What do you think that makes you?

Move the fuck on, bud. I guarantee you that there’s nothing that really makes this girl special. You have the golden opportunity to make something of yourself without the near endless frustration of dealing with the manipulation of women, and believe me (and everyone else here) when I say it: women are 5-star generals at manipulation. Biologically, it’s the only weapon they’ve ever had since the dawn of humanity to garner resources, and they’ve honed the skill.

Your skill that you have honed? Withdrawing your commitment to a master manipulator. She effectively did that for you, so go out there and build a life that you can be fucking proud of instead of getting hammered and wishing you can marry a girl who won’t reciprocate.

throawaybitches2424 · 2019-12-06T08:37:46+00:00

Convince me otherwise

FairDinkumBottleO · 2019-12-06T12:21:24+00:00

Hey mate just focus on yourself. I know its hard but whats happened has happened and all you can do is move forward.

Getting drunk can be easy way to cope but will also mess with your head and lead you a stray. Just distract yourself, Play video games, Hang out with mates and hit the gym. Browse MGTOW forums and check out some of the other links on the sidebar and you'll be fine.

mikeysixpointsix · 2019-12-06T17:15:28+00:00

My little brother joined the military right after his LTR broke up with him for another guy. He had taken care of this girl for years. Bought her a car put roof over her head. He was never abusive and had all kinds of plans. She got pregnant and had a kid with the new guy she dumped him for. And within six months she was calling my brother who was on his way to boot camp asking to get back together because she could no longer stand her new bf. He simply said I can’t help you, that ship sailed. I’m leaving for boot camp and your baby is your problem.

My brother went to Iraq and Korea. When his tour was finished he got out of the military and became a guard in Las Vegas. Then one day we were chatting on the phone and he said he was in a new relationship and sent me a picture of his new gf. I asked if he was playing a joke on me. The “girl” in the picture was clearly a shemale. I lived in SF at the time and could spot a tranny from a block away. They always over exaggerate what they think feminine is to a point that they stick out like a sore thumb. My brother assured me he wasn’t fucking with me. And I back pedaled a bit. My little brother was always a jock. While I playing dungeons and dragons, he was playing football etc. He was always the good looking guy. He drove a Camaro, dressed like a thug (football jerseys, baggy pants, fubu jackets) and had women constantly at him. I just couldn’t understand the sudden flip at the time. I wonder if his failed relationship with Vicky was what led him to date a shemale. I lost contact shortly after. One can only guess.

Title	Dont know what to do
Author	throawaybitches2424
Upvotes	14
Comments	16
Date	December 6, 2019 8:36 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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