I've been browsing r/relationships for a while now and I like to read its posts sometimes, and, man... Whenever it's a guy asking for advice on his relationship with a chick, people say shit like "oh, you should work on it, be better, make it work blabla" - even if the chick he's with is clearly not worth it (?). But when it's a girl asking advice on her relationship with a guy, you can always find multiple comments like "dump his ass, you're better than that" or "find someone who's better for you". I wonder, why don't men stand up for each other? Sometimes it seems like some dudes act like little girls who can't reason at all. Edit: it's almost like we, men, don't expect women to be responsible at all. We don't hold them accountable, so why should they be responsible for anything?