Explanation

executedigging · 2018-01-07T00:46:45+00:00

I think that is a healthy attitude. PayPal me $1,000, I'll pay it back. Sure a lot of people will not pay you back on the internet when you do this, but that is no reason to stop lending money to strangers on the internet. I also have some business proposals from Nigeria.

Tinkercreek777 · 2018-01-07T00:31:17+00:00

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theWillpowerEngine · 2018-01-07T02:03:54+00:00

All women are hypergamous, full stop.

However women are people, and some may act with varying degrees of hypergamy at different times. It's like... I always like nice tits and a hot young body, but if I was in a committed long term relationship with an honest partner that I cared about, I would curtail my urge to go plow that hot young thing over there even if she made herself available.

Similarly, those women who seem to be unicorns are high moral fiber/honor women who, despite their feelings of hypergamy, stick to what they believe is right. They are still hypergamous, and given the right opportunity, would show it; so would I in our scenario above... I can be faithful to my hypothetical wife, up until young Kate Beckinsale shows up and wants to start banging regularly.

This would be fine if the legal and social balance between the sexes was fair. Men would be lusty and polygamous, but many men would act with honor and control themselves. Women would be opportunistic and hypergamous, but many would act with honor and control themselves. Problem is, the balance is nowhere near equal, it's totally askew in womens' direction. This has several negative ramifications: you're taking tremendous risks even if you have a moral woman who is trying to control herself (she can change her mind at any time and destroy you with social/legal approval); society encourages the worst in female behavior while curtailing even innocent male behaviors; women are not raised to be very appealing mates; etc.

DesignRed · 2018-01-07T01:59:18+00:00

MGTOW is not about generalizing women, it's about understanding the system that has been designed to heavily favor their needs and forgive their mistakes.

The government and society at large has essentially handed women a loaded gun, pointed it at men, and told them if they pull the trigger, no one will hold them responsible.

All it takes is a twitter accusation to ruin your life these days and women are happy to play the part, as has been shown by the false accusations time and time again.

You don't have to agree, you might know lots of great women, so you have nothing to do with this sub, but if you ever get fucked over get those you trusted, you're welcome back.

somuchluv2give · 2018-01-07T02:37:28+00:00

Here’s my two cents on it, from a chad perspective. These so called “good girls” are actually FUCKING AWFUL. That’s the tough red pill to swallow. They are only good to you temporarily, and all of them eventually AWALT on you, 100%, no matter what you do. Girls have many masks, you do not know the real her until you date her for 3-6 months, and after that there’s another her which will reveal itself at the 2-3 year mark, and another after you live together and yet another after you marry and even another after you have kids with her. The deeper you get with her, the more her masks fall away and she reveals her true self. You speak of these “good girls” but you are only seeing what they want you to see, you do not know your own mother in the same way your father does, you do not know your sister in the same way her boyfriend does. I promise you the “good girl” persona is all for show, there are no good girls, good girls are just “smart sluts”, they are more careful and better at hiding their true nature and more adept at chameleoning themselves than the dumb sluts.

Vlad_the_imp_hailer · 2018-01-07T02:41:51+00:00

You could successfully walk through a mine field. That doesn't mean that it's a good idea.

git_hur_done · 2018-01-07T00:23:47+00:00

Dont let some people here convince you that. There are some normal girls out there, but the idea behind this place is that its so unlikely that its better to just mind your own business and work on self improvement

ThrowawayGhostGuy1 · 2018-01-07T00:20:11+00:00

As long as laws encourage the behavior, all women are suspect.

mckenzie_friend_au · 2018-01-07T02:18:23+00:00

There are of course the occasional good woman now. But the law prohibits your ability to trust her.

A five-year-old waving around a loaded pistol with the safety off could be the sweetest kid you ever met. Doesn't change the fact that the gun can/will go off and you will die.

As Karen Straughn astutely pointed out, it's not whether she would do that or not, it's that she can. Again, she may be truly angelic. The State, however, is decidedly not.

Belrick_NZ · 2018-01-07T09:16:02+00:00

Out of all my aunts. My friends parents. Basically baby boomer kids. Dozens of families.

Exactly 1 marriage have survived to this day.

Is your experience and different?

Ohboohoolittlegirl · 2018-01-08T10:41:21+00:00

It's simple statistics. We lump them together, cause stats give a great insight into the behaviour of a group of people. In addition to confirmation you see all around you, even in movies etc, where women are generally made to look better. Common experience has shown LOTS of men that this is the hard reality.. NAWALT is just a mantra for those who refuse to see the truth.

Title	Explanation
Author	Tinkercreek777
Upvotes	0
Comments	35
Date	January 7, 2018 12:17 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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