GYOW

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October 12, 2018

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Title	GYOW
Author	ballsdeepacademic-
Upvotes	148
Comments	14
Date	October 12, 2018 11:44 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/9npckx/gyow/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/gyow.476584 https://theredarchive.com/post/476584

[–]Ezarra11 points12 points13 points 7 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]RedditSurveillance 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I personally am taking a hiatus from dating, but I can see where in 10-15 years I may have the right conditions met to have a relationship that meets my desires. From my perspective MGTOW is an awakening period that many men now have where we realize that the game isn't at all like we were shown growing up. The steps forward are chosen by each individual but the knowledge gained here forever changes the way that decision is made.

MGTOW has allowed me to check out of the endless game until I decide that a girl (who understands these concepts) is worth taking a risk for. Until then I'm perfectly content with missing out on the... romance.

Men and women are very different. We have different needs, specialties, and capabilities. I personally believe that women are intended to be child bearers and homemakers as each sex is genetically conditioned to be the best at separate things. Having men and women each be the best at the same exact things would be totally redundant. It only makes sense that our evolution would lean towards efficiency instead of redundancy. Specialization as opposed to having an identical skill set.

That thinking process extends into the realm of the modern relationship where men and women each desire entirely different things. Men desire a stable home with a beautiful, kind, and humble wife to return to. Women desire to be taken care of or to BE desired. Friction ensues.

The culture of equality has also 'poisoned the well' by attempting to convince us all that we are perfectly equal rather than complementary to each other. The foundation has been destroyed, and whatever is built upon it will collapse.

In the several relationships I've been in, I have been abused mentally (I'd rather it have been physical...) by 100% of the women. I'm not an extra sensitive guy but I'm educated enough to know what abuse looks like. Through this process I also learned that some traits are shared by ALL women. Mood swings, lack of self control, hedonism, narcissism. Not a single exception in my life has been met. Every woman I've encountered has had a powerful desire for attention and admiration from everyone. It's selfish and vain. As if EVERYONE should see their face 5x daily on social media because it looks nice. All while achieving or contributing nothing to a better world. It grosses me out.

Few men are like this. Hence why we seek a community where there are no women to behave abusively. Until a woman can prove to me she doesn't crave vanity or the mighty dollar, I'll be happy alone.

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