How do I stop wanting intimacy?

ThatOneTy · 2018-12-11T22:07:02+00:00

Find hobbies, realize the risks of it, fap, realize you have things to do with your time. It’s honestly a test of will

MuleFool42 · 2018-12-11T22:10:07+00:00

You don't stop wanting intimacy. You just have self respect first. If you don't value yourself then nobody in a relationship will value you either. So start on yourself, which it sounds like you're doing.

Lot's of MGTOW have intimate relationships with women, they just don't move in with them or marry them. So it's not about going monk, it's about believing in yourself, become a success both personally and professionally, which only you can define, and then actualize around those goals. Become passionate and driven in everything you do so that your confidence level in your personal and professional pursuits is sky high, and then work on becoming a better version of yourself from that point each and every day.

When women see how much of a personal and professional success that you are, they'll be interested. The trick there is to not jump at the first offer. Play the field, and only let quality women, and men, into your life.

underrated_kawasaki · 2018-12-11T22:37:45+00:00

You don’t really want intimacy, you’ve just been conditioned by society to feel that you do and that it’s really fucking important to have it but it’s not. If you really want intimacy get a dog, their love is more real than what a woman could give you anyway. No shame in banging hookers and escorts, I do it by CHOICE because women aren’t worth my precious TIME. Also, the money that I give the escorts/hookers is nothing but chump change compared to a “real woman” slowly draining my entire bank account in the long run...

I’ve been on both sides of the fence and trust me, all that “love” and “intimacy” with women isn’t real. Women don’t actually love you, they love what you have to offer and what you can PROVIDE them. Even your own mother doesn’t really love you, she just loves the attention and validation you give her and would get over you in a week tops if you suddenly died because of all the sympathetic attention and validation she’d get from everyone else around her. All women are prostitutes, it’s just some are actually honest about it and work with it :)

Golden_Week · 2018-12-11T22:26:53+00:00

Running and not eating junk is good but you need to regulate it and make it rigid; you need a set time to run, and you need to restrict your junk food consumption (if any) to a certain day only. This small amount of discipline will do you a world of good, but it takes a couple weeks before you notice how great it actually is.

Then of course a hobby that was mentioned, but I'd recommend a hobby that will have some monetary return. If you like drawing, then try to sell some art on etsy/fiverr/ebay/art shows. If you like working on cars, offer to help relatives and neighbors for a small price. Of course, some hobbies don't make money, like fishing and hunting etc., but they certainly pay back in other ways. I guess what I mean is, a hobby with some sort of return. When you GYOW, it is really nice to have something that provides more.

I find that if you have a dream, work every day towards that dream. If that dream means alot to you, then focusing on it is a great way to awaken self-actualization. At some point, you will realize that your dream is worth more to you than your own life, and in that vein of thought, worth more to you than the chance to hold hands.

If its sex etc. you need, you can try PUA or r/seduction or just get an escort, or a doll even.

Lastly, get a strong friend group going, maybe even 3 or more groups to hang with. Alot of times, people desire romantic intimacy when they don't have enough social interaction because a girl is like a forced friend.

Anyways hope these tips help m8

justtenofusinhere · 2018-12-11T23:19:37+00:00

By getting it.

SFM_2046 · 2018-12-11T23:28:45+00:00

1 self love 2 self comforting thorough mental understanding of self love and you are your support 3 sex isn't love...boom

TinySackBigShaft_ · 2018-12-12T02:07:58+00:00

You desire intimacy because you hate your mother

Flesh_Pillow5 · 2018-12-12T08:26:59+00:00

By stopping fighting against the feeling and letting it be consciously

lonewolfsigma8917 · 2018-12-12T09:47:20+00:00

Why not ? You should have intimacy. BUT ONLY WITH PROSTITUTES.

Title	How do I stop wanting intimacy?
Author	howdoistopobsessing
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	December 11, 2018 10:01 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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