How do YOU define going your own way?

DangZagnut · 2017-08-19T14:50:07+00:00

Do whatever you want.

For example, if you play GTA5, drive through the city following traffic laws.

Stare at cheese for an hour and see what happens.

Kayak down the Nile with a "The Future is Crocodile" t-shirt.

Do whatever you want. My take is, I don't want to limit my abilities to do things I want to do. For me, marriage and babies would interfere with my ability to be happy. I'm not species exclusive either, I also don't have pets, because they too would interfere with my ability to go off on an adventure on another part of the planet.

Mojo_666 · 2017-08-19T14:55:54+00:00

I work, study, keep fit, I basically do whatever I want when I want but am responsible working contributing member of society. Everything I do I do for myself, that basically boils down to paying off the mortgage and building up my savings/pension so I can continue to do what I want when I want. Maybe one day I can go off grid and quit my job but as it stands all is good, I'm free from women and children. If you have ever been in a relationship had kids and your day is planned for you weeks in advance and all decisions on how you use your time and money are decided for you a women well it's the opposite of that.

cheesymold · 2017-08-19T15:47:37+00:00

No relationships outside of sex with women. Started my own business going mgtow. Endulge in my hobbies. Save money

phreshstart · 2017-08-19T15:04:41+00:00

I can cook, clean and entertain myself. Sex is overrated. A woman can't bring anything to the table that's worth risking half my shit, years of child support, prison, etc.

Basically this video explains pretty well my feelings about the dating world and how to go your own way.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5FjWe31S_0g

OGMGTOWNER · 2017-08-19T18:11:02+00:00

I define it as legal necessity. Hanging out with women in any capacity is an immense legal liability. Any woman (even ones you have never met) can accuse you of any heinous crime they can dream up, and you'll be sitting in a prison cell for years getting ass-raped before anybody starts to begin to question the validity of the accusations.

The west has criminalized sex and relationships. Go your own way to protect yourself legally

secret626 · 2017-08-19T15:28:16+00:00

Being free as much as possible. Financially, sexually, etc. Read this: www.blackdragonblog.com/2015/03/12/what-being-independent-really-means-part-1/

meMGTOWlongtime · 2017-08-19T18:45:07+00:00

You go your own way however you choose. For me, it is writing, (I am a bestselling author) keeping myself in shape/training, riding motorcycles, and travel.

Only you can decide what going your own way is for you. It's basically doing whatever you want and don't let a woman reap ANY of the rewards from your efforts to do what you want.

That is really the key point, YOU reap the rewards of whatever you do, and a woman does not. It's not about being mean/cruel to a female, but about you concentrating on you.

Once you push female influence out of your space you can make more money (which you get to keep more of) and consequently if you are savvy with your cash raise your credit score, buy a few choice toys you want, enjoy yourself, and still stay out of debt.

That is how I have lived now and have for 10 years. Going your own way is self-explanatory. My way isn't your way, but simply any direction AWAY from the influence of a woman.

I'm in my mid 40's and have a pretty awesome life. That's me going my own way!

HeForeverBleeds · 2017-08-19T15:12:00+00:00

I do what I want, while not diverging from my moral values, of course. But basically not worry about society's pressures on how a "real man" ought to behave or women's demands on what a "good guy" needs to do for her

I know too many guys whose whole life, from how they treat people to the way they talk to the way they dress and wear their hair, is based entirely on what they think women want them to be like. Just be who you want you to be like

Itisforsexy · 2017-08-19T16:22:33+00:00

Take a step back and analyzing your life and your perspective. Determine what you want by analyzing your desires and goals and ensuring that they're not influenced by other people. Essentially remove all peer pressure from your decisions. Make them as you see fit, for yourself first and foremost (without hurting others).

weather-boi · 2017-08-19T18:33:41+00:00

Well someone made /r/GentlemenOnly for the same reasons you state...worth checking out.

ColdStoryBro · 2017-08-19T22:55:51+00:00

When you realize you're part of a rigged game, stop playing and walk away.

Silver-Noxx · 2017-08-19T18:19:12+00:00

I get to choose where I live

I get to choose what house I buy

I get to choose how I decorate it

I'm not relegated to some depressing little man cave in the basement

I get to leave when I want

I get to come home when I want

I never have to check in

Not wasting time and drama on calling and texting some woman back constantly or being stuck chained to her side.

I get to eat what I want

I get to eat out where I want

I get to eat at home if I want

Not blowing all my money so she can eat out every meal and giving in to where she wants to go each time.

I can have whatever hobby I want

I can can spend as much money as I want on it

I can watch whatever TV or movies I want.

I can play video games until 3 am if I want

Not be nagged to death for every little thing I want to enjoy

I can talk to whoever I want to talk with.

Be friends with who I want to be friends with

I can go out with whoever I want to go out with

I can go on vacation wherever I want or not go on vacation

I don't have to blow a ton of money constantly on vacations so she can be happy, and we go where she wants to go.

.....there is no end to what it means to go my own way. I could type forever on it's benefits.

papertrace99 · 2017-08-19T20:40:38+00:00

Doing exactly what I want and not being a slave. Creating my own destiny according to exactly what I want. Not falling for classical traps such as marriage and dead end jobs. Adapting, evolving and trying to achieve my goals.

In the grand scheme we are all pawns might as well just been in charge of my own future and not follow whatever I'm told by society at large.

You are not special, your story has been told a millions times and you only live once, it's a choice that everyone has to make, being a person or a little robot.

Self improvement and self actualisation, become the best version of you.

greywolf1968 · 2017-08-20T01:16:45+00:00

I define mgtow in just three words. Liberty,Property, Sanity. I think that pretty much covers it ,don't you?

s0ma_ · 2017-08-20T05:00:36+00:00

this forum finds it easy to lambaste women, cus they are usually
the source of a lot of the animosity.

i have found ALL humans, that do not act like humans
should be treated as animals. when you force someone
to face consequences, deal in the currency of integrity,
and generally are a bane on existence; not many are worth interacting.

so you ghost them. i dont single out womyn.
i have female friends, but they know i can dust them
at given moment.

all MGTOW that ever succeeded have money and time.
that empowers them with a level of freedom that most people
inevitably have scorn.

the power of that philosophy is how you go your own way.
self-reflection and self-empowerment.

everyone else spends all day crying how their lives arent
like the people they compare themelves, on social media.

delithug · 2017-08-20T20:39:41+00:00

I read the lore in WoW quests.

Title	How do YOU define going your own way?
Author	wongdongfromhongkong
Upvotes	12
Comments	35
Date	August 19, 2017 2:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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