How does anyone get laid?

JStheHammer · 2016-11-01T23:30:00+00:00

I rape my right hand.

Returnofthemack3 · 2016-11-01T23:32:52+00:00

pretty simple really. the betas who give women attention and affection to easily for free, get 0 pussy. they already gave the girl what she wants. watch how a guy who is good with women behaves. he doesn't give her what she wants, or he dangles validation in her face till she keeps going further and further to impress him.

think of it like an exchange, pussy for validation. you dont just hand away the validation for free, you make the bitch work for it. of course this really only works if your good looking and confident acting anyway. its not like women give a shit if some ugly awkward dude isn't giving them validation fast enough.

TLDR; treat women like shit.

Smitty6 · 2016-11-02T00:40:57+00:00

I don't go out and look to get laid anymore but I used to and was successful at times. What I did was textbook RP stuff. Lift, be confident, indifferent but aggressive in eye contact, some light kino (touching) and then escalation when I had the girl hooked. The way you could tell they were hooked was when they would stay with your eye contact, would also touch me back and get closer from my touching. It didn't work with all women but it did work.

Then when you did this enough, you realized how much women want D from confident AND attractive guys. Note that this was to get women into bed. Whenever they found out that I wasn't making more than 20 k they didn't want anything else to do with me long term.

This was a huge eye opener for me. Women will sleep with guys who they are attracted to but they won't date anybody who they consider short term prospects. AF/BB is real. One of the many reasons I gave that up and went MGTOW.

Once you really take the RP and learn about their nature and see it first hand MGTOW is a logical way to go. The clincher is learning about divorce rape, false rape allegations and gynocentric society that caters to them.

Men are much better off keeping to yourselves and just staying invisible to them. Keeps you out of trouble (stds, possible false rape accusations, pregnancy/child support) and away from crazy unnecessary drama.

skinnytwiggyman · 2016-11-02T00:02:19+00:00

80/20 rule says the bottom 20% of women have their pick of the bottom 80% of men, which would include some very decent looking fit guys. Right now decades into the obesity epidemic, almost certainly the lower 20% of women will be overweight and very likely obese.

The answer: If you're not a top tier chad, you must fuck fat chicks or die a virgin. But don't be fat yourself. They hate that.

General_Fear · 2016-11-02T00:31:18+00:00

Most women have a booty call guy. These "In case of emergency break glass" guys are at the ready. One phone call and these booty calls will arrive faster than a domino pizza delivery guy.

MajorBeef24 · 2016-11-02T01:33:43+00:00

For most guys I know, it just correlates mainly with effort. The friend of mine who has fucked the most girls - he just tries so much basically. He goes after multiple girls every time he goes out, uses tinder a lot, all that stuff. I think he has a low 'success rate', but because he makes so many attempts, he gets a one-night-stand fairly regularly. He's not good-looking at all (but not bad either) and he's alright at feigning confidence. He's chatty as hell, and has that teasy jokey personality that girls seem to like. He's semi-redpilled, I talk to him (gently) about red pill stuff and he loves it.

So there's a case study of how an average dude gets girls semi-regularly. The amount of effort he puts in though... Fuck that, personally, I can't be bothered. There are several things in my life more important than girls, and I'm not spending more time on girls than I do on them. This guy spends maybe 3 hours a day doing tinder, Snapchat etc, one night out a week minimum etc.

The way to get the most sex (although with the same girl) is just to have a gf. The people who have the most sex by far are in the first year or two of a relationship. If I cared enough about sex, I'd have a relationship for 1-3 years then move on to another one. It's probably a bit harder to find girls for relationships than it is to fuck a drunk slut though. By far the best way IMO is IRL through a mutual friend, a club (as in a group, not a fucking nightclub) or through school/college/work (though be careful, don't shit where you eat, so not someone in the same class or office as you unless it finishes within a year).

And LTRs today are dangerous to your wellbeing and you have to be somewhat on-guard against bullshit. Keep emotional attachment under control and leave asap if bullshit happens, DO NOT take shit!

As for me, I used the second option but wasn't careful enough and took the blue pill for ease (I felt like Cypher, I know this is bullshit but I'm going to just go with it anyway type stuff). That was a bad idea, the blue pill is poison.

But it did get me lots of decent sex for a while. Currently I'm staying away from that shit entirely so I can focus on other stuff. I never have chased women, I kind-of wait for them to show some interest first. This takes a long time, and most girls are so subtle (since nothing is worse for them than rejection, their expressions of interest are so covert) that I miss most of them anyway. Very few girls will ask anyone out (only Chad and only when they're drunk) so you still have to do that. But I've never been rejected since I waited till it was clear every time, and just bailed quickly if flaking occurred.

There's just my advice and some examples. Non-Chads do get laid, but it either takes lots of effort and some game, 'exploiting' drunk girls, or getting a girlfriend. And they don't get laid that often unless they get a girlfriend.

Of course, I believe the best option are prostitutes. Less pain, more gain. I haven't hired one but if you go to somewhere where there's plenty of competition then they should be good. Where I live they're pretty sketchy and expensive (probably because they're illegal here) though. And there's always a psychological barrier to doing anything the first time (but IME once you've broke that barrier a couple of times it becomes fairly natural and easy).

Fat_Akuma · 2016-11-01T23:54:35+00:00

Idk. Im not an attractive man but i know how to enjoy myself and so should you if youre mgtow.

Last week i had two seperate chances to get laid on friday. Went to a big ol party and had women throwinf themselves at me. A white knight cock blocked me then the one girl wanted me and my friend to DP her on the roof of a parking garage but he and i had a group waiting for us. We were botb drunk as fuck by that time and i danced most of the night anyways. It was thefirst time i actually went out after lifting since last march or april.

If you wanna get laid and be mgtow dont give a fuck about anything but your own feelings.

Forgot to say you should probably be funny and at least pretend to be confident. Learn to laugh at yourself and others.

irvluc · 2016-11-02T02:38:10+00:00

Quick answer: social circles. Social status is paramount to women. If you are a popular male with a large social circle and many female friends that you party with, you will get laid...ALOT. You just have to hookup with one chick (never a relationship and dont commit) and if you manage to maintain a friendship with her afterwards she will give you access to your friends and they will sleep with you as well. Most women are highly sexual and once you have the endorsement of one female she will convince and persuade her friends to fuck you instead of a strange guy they dont know. Women find guys that they do not know as "creepy" and you will have to prove yourself (be entertaining to them) before they trust you. I've seen this happen many times and been a part of it myself.

UncleStevie · 2016-11-01T23:30:08+00:00

Ask some women about it, they don't know either. I think a lot of times it just helps being in the right place at the right time.

Helikzhan · 2016-11-02T04:17:17+00:00

Be not bad looking. That's different for everyone mind. Then just be out in the world socializing your ass off being that extrovert you weren't born to be. You'll pull ass. No question.

The thing is with most guys we're not particularly talkative and women bore us to tears. So we never find first base. You will have to do things you probably hate. A beautiful woman is not going to appear outside of your computer monitor to ride your dick.

I'm not a bad looking guy. I'm also tall enough that women notice me. I don't pull ass because I don't socialize. That's the big killer which I prefer. I like to avoid the attention. I suspect most women think I view them as a waste of my time and I do. Sounds shitty to say but that's the truth.

sadbasturd99 · 2016-11-02T01:40:18+00:00

Well, I dont get laid. So there is one answer.

Another answer, most of the men here are probably teens or early 20's and have never had a woman desperately in love with them. It is an eye opening experience. They say and do all the desperate things you may have said and done when you first got your heart broken. And maybe that girl seemed uncaring or unkind or brushed off her cheating on you as just having fun or something. While I have never cheated or done anything wrong to women, I devastated several of them by not falling for them. It hurts a lot more to get your heart broken, but it hurts to break someones heart as well. They are just as desperate as us.

How did I get these women ? I was young and not as repulsive as I am now. I have a small dick but I am good in bed. I think I am just good with bodies as I was always good at fighting/wrestling/some pre MMA martial arts. Oh and they picked me up, cause there was a time when the internet was new, and girls met guys sometimes, or a friend told them to go out with me.

MessyEnema · 2016-11-02T03:25:31+00:00

Sounds more like you're a niceguy™ and not a MGTOW.

squidracer · 2016-11-02T01:24:55+00:00

Alcohol

americanenity · 2016-11-02T03:15:27+00:00

Luck and time

victor_knight · 2016-11-02T08:28:08+00:00

At some point they must stop searching for chad and need some dick, it fucks my head up.

Have you seen the reaction of men to a spread pair of legs and a nice pussy-slit? Go to any strip club and take a good look at their faces (instead of the slit). Go ahead, look. Then, ask yourself how difficult you think it is for women to get a guy to fuck them.

JFK7878 · 2016-11-02T11:59:31+00:00

Sex for women is as hard to get as tap water. Everybody can get laid but for average guy time and money invested is like a second job where instead of getting paid you pay money to your boss. Some figured out it is not best deal.

Hugeman33 · 2016-11-02T15:37:20+00:00

You meet women just for sex and let the other men take care of her emotional bull.

geocitiesuser · 2016-11-02T16:25:24+00:00

Chads get laid. Oh well.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2016-11-02T00:04:32+00:00

Have game, like Fat_Akuma:)

s0ma_ · 2016-11-02T11:46:16+00:00

women want it more than men. men are content to play video games.

wildfireboat · 2016-11-02T14:24:46+00:00

Talking with women in person is a numbers game mixed with good social skills.

INOFFENSIVE_PUNCH3 · 2016-11-02T15:31:37+00:00

It's a numbers game. The more you step up to bat, the higher your probability of a home run.

But the reality is you'll be making a lot of effort for a reward that isn't actually all that amazing.

Title	How does anyone get laid?
Author	skinnytwiggyman
Upvotes	29
Comments	59
Date	November 1, 2016 11:22 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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