how to get over ex?

KR4Z0R · 2020-05-11T17:46:17+00:00

Invest in yourself and hobbies, start going to the gym, don't creep her social media or message her. It's going to suck for awhile but over time it will get better and better, took me about a year or so to get over mine.

GoneGonescott · 2020-05-11T17:53:38+00:00

If you have a hobby, throw youself in it. Occupy your mind. Cry. Think about her. Cry. Go out in the sun. Be with friends. It will last. It is supposed to. That is how it works. Whatever we tell you, means nothing. You mean everything. One day you will wake up and ask yourself "why", and you won't care for the answer anymore. You'll just make youself some coffee, go out and do your thing. Like always. Best wishes!

KneeDeepThought · 2020-05-11T18:35:51+00:00

You are going through withdrawal, sex and love are drugs from your brain's perspective. Keep in mind what you're going through is physiological at its root and not just mental or emotional. It will take time and willpower to get through the withdrawal symptoms but they will fade.

Treat yourself like a recovering alcoholic or heroin addict. Find a mantra to repeat to yourself, and I would recommend getting good exercise to release endorphins which will blunt some of the pain.

Other than that, cut all contact with her, spend time with friends and family to strengthen other bonds with people, and in time the dark clouds will get fewer and pass. Be patient, withdrawal can be a long process.

karlis1993 · 2020-05-11T17:56:57+00:00

if you feel like wanting to die, seek professional help. believe me, it is better to be put on medication than take your life over girl which is not worth a fart.

do what you have to do. don't fucking stalk her on media. it will bring you nothing but negative emotions.

as KR4Z0R wrote, it will suck for a while, but every single day you struggle will be closer to be over her and find your purpose. it will take time, but one day you will look back on your old-you today and have laugh what a fucktard you was having a bad day because of some fucking thot.

use your grief and sadness as an energy for something to accomplish. for me, working out always have helped. even 200 pushups a day and you will feel like your anger is elsewhere.

visit your family. appreciate time with them. their time hold more value than any girl you wil ever meet.

and keep in mind if you feel like you are alone in this, remember, there are like 1 million people feeling the same emotions at the same time if not more.

Sorikaner · 2020-05-11T17:59:23+00:00

Block her and don't let her live rent free in your mind, and as other commenters have said, try focus yourself onto fields of interest to help yourself forget her

FuzzyGrowth · 2020-05-11T18:37:42+00:00

It will pass. Trust me I’ve been there. You have a life outside of being in a relationship with her. Find hobbies and ways to pass the time. Time heals all wounds. Also there’s nothing wrong when you are by yourself to cry it out. Cry as much as you can and let it all out.

DavidLoPan13 · 2020-05-11T18:25:42+00:00

It just takes time to get over her. Not a process u can artificially speed up. Ur only hope is to distract yourself with other activities.

conjurion_bonafide · 2020-05-11T19:20:27+00:00

First of all, I am sorry that you have to go through the this. I am 28M, and I was in your shoes a 2 years ago. You may feel like wanting to die but I assure you it gets better with time.

Ask your self a very simple question : Why did you love her ? and try to come up with an honest answer for that. A non emotional, and rational answer, if it helps try writing it down point by point. After some iterations you will realise, you are worried for nothing,

What worked for me was conciouos thinking. I took some time off to understand what happened and why ? Some of her behaviours were very difficult to explain, my pursuit to thinking an reading about them made me aware of the MGTOW and red pill philosophy.

I am in peace now.

Vaxel00 · 2020-05-11T20:51:51+00:00

Right now, I am feeling terrible, sad and angry ... I feel like wanting to die.

Why?

Imperial_Plastics · 2020-05-12T10:14:57+00:00

Be neither idle, nor solitary.

Timeformenow · 2020-05-13T14:44:00+00:00

Focus on Yourself as if your future depends on it, as it does!

2020-05-11T18:11:29+00:00

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30RITUALS · 2020-05-11T18:55:13+00:00

Imagine her getting fucked as we speak, bigger, better than you ever did, she loves it, and realize you dont exist anymore. Negative visualisation works. Move on.

Chriskorsch · 2020-05-11T20:53:17+00:00

I just started skateboarding again after taking a hiatus from it for years and I am thriving! I’m loving it! Also recently out of a shitty relationship and have been trying to find ways to cope.

Just got on antidepressants again too so I guess that helps.

shmegtow · 2020-05-11T22:16:31+00:00

Fuck her friend. And get some strange the. Go make some money and get physically strong. Go on solo adventures and vision quests

ripperxbox · 2020-05-11T22:24:56+00:00

Watch Terrence Popps video Challenge accepted dick by the foot. And realize that this is the average females future.

wadafawk · 2020-05-12T03:36:13+00:00

Hey it’s me!!

Mine cheated on me with her co worker. together 5 years. 2 months later they’re engaged. Today I found out they’re having a baby now. The love of my life. I have 200 different tinder thots and still want her. Sad

Title	how to get over ex?
Author	iamsadness345
Upvotes	15
Comments	34
Date	May 11, 2020 5:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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