How you keep yourself silent?

roxon89 · 2020-01-29T13:17:36+00:00

You sound like you’re quite young. Young people tend to view the world in a very black and white fashion and their sense of what’s “right” burns brightly because they don’t have the life experience to realize that there’s a lot of nuance in the world.

As far as being more silent....I would just say this.

Realize that NOT being silent is buying you anything or getting you anywhere. In fact, it seems like it’s just causing you more aggravation.

So if something isn’t serving you well, stop doing it.

NeverNeverLandIsNow · 2020-01-29T14:22:37+00:00

Every time you want to say something about or related to MGTOW, stop, realize you need to shut the fuck up. Done. You won't do yourself any favors going on about it.

U-94 · 2020-01-29T14:41:02+00:00

I carry a lot of conspiracy-realities around with me. Everything from child pedo-rings running the world to secret space programs. It's what I believe. You think it's clown world because of feminism? Everything is a fucking joke to me.

I just smile and play the game. I don't need to indulge myself with righteous pontificating to people who don't care. We're all slaves on the plantation Earth and we're all already dead.

gdoghost118 · 2020-01-29T15:12:09+00:00

First rule about fight club don't talk about fight club

2020-01-29T13:19:36+00:00

I'm having similar issues. But being silent is the way to go. Me and you need more self discipline. Just focus on other things and change the subject when women come up.

RedMeatTrinket · 2020-01-29T14:23:39+00:00

I release all that rage here on reddit, primarily subs like this. I just watch and smile at the fallacies I see now.

Synth_Kobra · 2020-01-29T15:57:05+00:00

You can be angry all you want but you can never change people with sheer force of will alone. You can bring a horse to trough but you can't force it to drink. It needs to be thirsty enough to WANT to drink. You can be there for your friends, but you should be going your own way. The road to self mastery never ends - meditation and working out are great ideas and will probably mellow you out pretty considerably. Preaching your ideas isn't really an effective way to change the minds of people with deeply ingrained beliefs forcibly inserted by society. Deconditioning is a long process - you yourself are angry still after 3-4 months. It takes time, some more than others. All shall be what it will be, all you can do is plant the seeds subtly and work on yourself. GOod luck.

Gn0meRat · 2020-01-29T18:30:49+00:00

I can stay silent cause I have no need to destroy that which will destroy itself in due time.

SirDuLeon · 2020-01-29T19:25:37+00:00

Remember no matter how many years of friendship you might have with these simps they will try to throw you under the bus for the pussy. It dont matter do them,they do not respect the bond between men nor understand it for that matter. It happened to me and i hope that it does not happen to you OP. Finally for the being more silent matter that you are currently facing,my only advice is whenever you see any red flags from the people you are interacting with cut them off without hesitation and maybe find a hobby that you are currently might interest you for example i like to spend my time reading sci fi themed books and watching old sci fi series.

Charlemagne_12 · 2020-01-29T14:38:07+00:00

You have to discipline yourself. When others are allowed to taunt and swing your mood they have power. Material arts, meditation, the Tao, and other works teach people to achieve inner peace. I don't mind words tossed at me since they're led by ignorance.

JMD173 · 2020-01-29T15:03:31+00:00

It gets better with time, slowly work on letting go of that rage and you will quickly find yourself in a more calm and peaceful state. Too much rage for too long only becomes harmful for yourself and others.

"The Art of Letting go (Red Pill) 🔴"

https://youtu.be/5wDbe0SX0Xw

Shimakaze4 · 2020-01-29T15:12:40+00:00

I have to say I've never felt so liberated the few years I just spoke and said whatever the fuck I wanted to whoever the fuck I was talking to. You have to stop yourself though because it truly is addictive, to just say whatever is on your mind, please or offend people. It will get easier to control yourself the older you get.

TigPlaze · 2020-01-29T16:45:36+00:00

I have a fake Facebook account that I use to express how I really feel. I rail against feminism and their hypocrisy. Some people get pissed off by it, but, oh well.

sootlord · 2020-01-29T17:07:27+00:00

Honestly man, be vocal to your male friends. Men need to wake up from this stupid simp day dream they stuck in. Sure they call me a misogynist, but when they get burned they always come find me for advice.

Example. My best buddy of over 15 years came over and told me he was talking to his 28F ExGf that mysteriously came out of the wood works to start rekindling their flame. I've been spitting RedPill facts his way for maybe 6 months now. He says to me "Sootlord, I don't want to believe that women are like this. Maybe its a mixture of both (BluePill/RedPill)" Obviously I told him that he's being retarded and that she is only coming around because he's the "Safe Option™" because her fertility window is closing. Then out of the blue she ghosts him and he was confused.

2 days later her sister public blasted her on Facebook for sleeping around behind her boyfriends back. Screenshoted and sent to my buddy. It was at that this beautiful moment everything I said to him RedPill related solidified. Women are master manipulators.

XxReaper226xX · 2020-01-29T17:09:33+00:00

I'll quote Morpheus here

"You have to understand. Most people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured and so hopelessly dependent on the system that they will fight to protect it".

E-roticWarrior · 2020-01-29T20:57:03+00:00

It's simple really. Just, shut tha fuck up.

randoresnolim · 2020-01-30T00:24:57+00:00

you must learn to enjoy the clown show.

And if you do want to talk about it use jokes, humor is a mans way of saying things that aren't acceptable to say.

bonus tip. don't seem too serious about the jokes.

bonus bonus tip. take note of all the incorrect assumptions of your friends and their root cause, then a few well placed jokes can do alot to undermine those subconscious biases.

vladimir__makarov · 2020-01-30T02:59:59+00:00

For the most part I spoke about all the red pill knowledge for so long that I exhausted myself and got over the red pill rage. The downside was that it took me 4 years to get over it. I was so consumed by the rage that I completely neglected my life for those 4 years. So try to consider this before spiraling deep into the red pill rage.

Aside from that, it was helpful to listen to red pill content from creators with more "chill" or nuanced points of view such as Thinking Ape and Colttaine. One of Colltaine's latest videos had a particular effect on me. It was called "the matrix behind the matrix". Most people do not want to be saved. They really don't care. Use all the red pill knowledge for the benefit of your life and without compromising anything.

And yes, things like working out, meditation, hobbies etc would most certainly help. However, my suggestion is to stay away from gyms and try to workout in solitude for a little while. There is a high likelihood that gymthots might push you to the edge 😁

ToANewMe · 2020-01-30T08:50:21+00:00

Eventually you learn that living your life successfully and speaking truth softly does more than preaching.

Harlen21 · 2020-01-29T15:10:20+00:00

I suggest you read about stoicism

Title	How you keep yourself silent?
Author	Jindal_MOZ
Upvotes	47
Comments	23
Date	January 29, 2020 1:12 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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