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[–]Cyronsan99 points100 points101 points 6 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
First of all, if you're in position to hit on her friends and get success, keep doing it. You're doing well in life.
Second, on topic - polyamorous is just another BS word women make to allow themselves to play their mating strategy unrestricted. It means exploiting one male while looking for better sperm at the same time. Don't even approach these creatures if you're a self respecting man.
[–]thefudmaster43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Had a woman tell me she was poly on our first date. I got up and left after saying “this isn’t gonna work out”.
For me, it wasn’t as much about multiple partners as it is about sexual safety.
[–]Cyronsan34 points35 points36 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
First of all: smart move.
Second of all, call them on their BS. Tell her, "if I'm not enough for you, I'm not interested."
You're not an accessory. You're not a "toaster", as Stardusk said. Not some utility to replace at their convenience. You might lose on sex, but down the road you're going to remember this, and smile. Keep your pride.
If you're interested in just banging her and have that option, sure, go ahead, enjoy yourself - but don't get involved with a woman who plays this game. It's humiliating.
[–]thefudmaster25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Absolutely. Dating after my divorce was an interesting experience. Women were far more aggressive, and I found out early that a lot of married women cheat on their husbands. While tempting to bang the married women, I never did on a matter of principle.
[–]Cyronsan21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
After my recent divorce, I've seen some of the horrors of the "meat market", and decided I'd rather stay inside. It's ok if people think I'm a loser, because the alternative disgusts me too much.
[–]thefudmaster17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here. I enjoyed being the prize to be won, simply because I had a job, a car, and disposable income. It was hilarious to see a woman clamor to get at those assets, and it was even more fun to deny them.
[–]Wolfy3111 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I never did on a matter of principle.
Dumb. If you wont someone else will.
You'll miss out on the fun.
It's not your fault she's a whore, nor will you change it. Just use the whores and move on. Let the whores know they are just whores.
[–]thefudmaster0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I forgot to mention that my ex wife cheated numerous times throughout our marriage. I didn’t want to be a chad because I’d been through that before.
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[–]thefudmaster6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not a dick move at all. The worst move of all is when someone lies about their appearance. The date I mentioned was a soda at a restaurant bar. I explicitly state that I’m not doing dinner. That weeds out the chaff.
I got catfished once and the woman sat down next to me with a big smile. She said “you’re just as handsome as your pictures”. As I stood up to put my jacket on, I said “you look absolutely nothing like your pictures” and walked out. Last thing I saw was her jaw wide open and nearly hitting the floor.
Dating should not be about dinner and drinks. If a woman didn’t want to hang out, I unmatched right then and there. Don’t ever pay for anything other than coffee or a soda on a first date.
[–]Rottinghere1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good. Man.
[–]Fantoche_Dreemurr1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My ultimate best move was when I heard a girl happily bleat "I'm a feminist!" I nodded and waved her off "No thanks, I'm not interested in morons"
I had a few drinks and the empty stare she got me while the hamster processed what she had been hearing was worth a thousand bucks
[–]Introvert8243 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Polyamorous is just a cowardly way to justify cheating.
[–]amwfhunter[S] 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Well that depends. If they arent in a committed relationship that is fine. Else I agree, it is a copout. But if both parties agree then they cant back out. Problem is many women want the world but dont want to work for it. Most of the time it is an excuse to alleviate responsibility.
[–]Introvert8216 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It's actually starting to become a trend. Wasn't long ago I saw an article about polygamy becoming more popular among younger women. Men are so desperate they will allow anything these days.
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
God is it gonna suck when men simply escape into their world of hanging out with their friends, online gaming, online poker, etc.
Men need socialization, just not as much of it. I'm perfectly fine exchanging a few sentences and talking shit playing games of any kind against friends I have, whether they are just online or not.
When women realize that the socialization they desire has escaped them, and they have nowhere to turn, they will turn to anti-depressants.
Men put up with it to some degree if they are lost. But it's almost always one sided because the women do it when they are younger. Without knowing much about that lifestyle, I'd be willing to bet the polygamy ends when the woman stops being able to find other men. Then she settles back into life with the man she disrespected.
The time to start planning an escape and becoming extremely suspicious is when a woman asks you, "What would you do if I cheated on you?" "What do you think about polyamory? Polygamy?"
Get the fuck out. They either already did it, or are no longer committed to you. Tell her fuck no, dig deep into why she just asked you that, and find someone that wouldn't even think of it being a possibly to be able to ask the question at all.
[–]Hey_Paul_Aaaaaaahh1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I hear that all the time "men are becoming desperate" (as if up until now most men were not absolute pussybeggars).
I wonder if it's true.
Many guys in my generation aren't steady or married and the younger generations (of men/boys) seem even less interested in it than my contemporaries.
Might just be my experience though but considering how VASTLY more "redpill" the discourse has become in just a few years, I don't think it's wrong to feel a tiny bit of optimism (or at least some schadenfreude if you're feeling cynical).
[–]RevolutionaryPea70 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Eh? Cheating is the cowardly way to practise hypergamy. If a woman is open about it then it's not cheating and it's not cowardly. If a man agrees to be cucked then he'll get what's coming to him. But at least he's getting a choice.
[–]Gamer4life9414 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Its only ok when shes the center of attention
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[–]Nestroit2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
it's so fucking cheap and sad.
[–]RussianChimiChanga9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
This is me going my own poly way.
[–]amwfhunter[S] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I do the same. I am financially independent. My staff (mostly female) ask me why dont I find someone to settle down with lol......I told them.id rather go on "vacations"
[–]RussianChimiChanga3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Take two of them on vacation. Make them compete for your attention. Don't get them pregnant and also make sure you don't live in a common-law marriage state.
[–]amwfhunter[S] 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I travel to meet up with foreign plates from europe and all over. I don't date local man.
[–]RussianChimiChanga1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Tell me you've been to Vienna cuz oh my fucking God if every girl there is in a God damn 9 or 10.
[–]amwfhunter[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
All over eastern europe bruh
[–]RussianChimiChanga1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
"My man!"
In my original pic, The girl on the right is from Slovakia and the girl in the left is from Manhattan.
I tell you one thing Eastern European women are the most beautiful in the planet.
[–]amwfhunter[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I concur. The woman who is closest to me with respect to conjugal partner and the closest to a relationship is eastern European.
[–]RussianChimiChanga0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
May I ask what country she is from?
[–]amwfhunter[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The Balkans.
I'll PM u
[–]Thedirtyscientist210 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Every "I opened up our relationship and now he's banging younger women, how do I go back?!" type post
[–]RevolutionaryPea75 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No woman wants to be polygamous. It's just an excuse to try out some other branches without letting go of the current one. But as soon as she finds Chad she'll want monogamy.
[–]amwfhunter[S] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
But some are so broken they dont know what's going on anymore
[–]Boggob155 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Let polyamory work towards your favor. The lone wolf is always well fed (especially in our new sexual climate).
[–]xre-awakenedx2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Does "poly" basically just mean slut?
[–]ThaRedHoodie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My friend is about to get married to a "poly" chick. We all know how that's gonna play out, but there's no stopping him.
[–]Raygar212 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Polyamory usually means the partner who has higher SMV fucking around openly on the reliable spouse. It gets creepy af when people are still doing this shit after they start families. Although by then it's usually the guy who is keeping an open side chick. All this boils down to is women scrabbling over resources and men trying to keep their sexual options open. Women attempting to do same, but never works out the same way for them. Someone always has to be footing the bill, whether her beta orbiters, her partner that supports her, or the woman and children of the married man she's targeted for resource extraction. I've known women to juggle all three scenarios simultaneously, and call that polyamory. Nope bitch, you're just offering sex in exchange for resources. The only difference between you and a pro is that sometimes you don't pony up your end of the bargain.
[–]NagyonNagy1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No OP you don't understand. That is "emotional cheating" and it is something else.
No, seriously, some of these retarded women tried to unironically explain and make this claim to me. Apparently getting fucked is allowed but "having emotional interactions" with others is not allowed.
[–]amwfhunter[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol
"Polyamorous" is just "I'm lucky I managed to convince my betas to let me fuck my alpha without any consequences"
[–]RedSkeller0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you’re her best option she’s eating her poly vomit off the floor and guarding the door when you invite her friend over for a 3 way. It’s hardwired into their brain to get exclusive sex with a top male and any other label is just to cover her rampant hypergamy.
[–]CerebralAbrasion0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Top pic: They're just friennnnds! Bottom pic: Why won't the real men date me?
Realistically though when I'm plowing a hoe who claims to be poly, I know she just a plate so I dont date and get tested. I just text her when I'm in her city, they usually drop everything for me when I'm there.
[–]BetterHimThanMe0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bitches won't allow you to have female friends. Good thing I fucked a bunch of their own female friends behind their back and made sure they found out.
They still wouldn't leave after that...........
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