I need some support

Im_Talking · 2018-11-29T21:16:51+00:00

When dealing with women, keep your guard up. Always look for the warning signs and be prepared to act definitively once you see these signs.

Always keep the woman on edge, never understanding how you really feel. Women hate this but love it. Sub-consciously women want to be controlled by men.

spinsilo · 2018-11-29T21:25:29+00:00

Man, the dating market is a shitty place. You basically work your ass off to build smth in your life, then you have to prove value to someone who doesn't have anything to offer and takes half if not everything you have and leaves you back at square one to repeat the process... Understand you're the prize, you're provider, the creator and without you this machine (society) would fall. This is your power as a man and nobody will tell you that because they need your energy to keep it running like a battery (just like in the Matrix movie)

Once you accept the truth (take the red pill), you use your energy for things worth persuing like projects, hobbies (things that make you happy), improving yourself (weaknessess you might have, know thyself through meditation)

For example my hobbies are playing the guitar, play tennis and learn new languages and I have new ones for the next year. My personal project is becoming a public agent and hunt corrupt politicians. I had a weakness which was: I had a bad eating habit, now I'm eating better and hitting the gym (and that's where the mindset comes in: I do it for myself, I'm not getting stronger to get women - I took them from the pedestal they should've never been in in the first place)

I've never been happier in my life, man. I went 100% monk. If you still want to date women, that's ok, but they should never be your first objective.

MrStokeMan · 2018-11-29T21:22:18+00:00

Message me any time. Men need community. That's what this is

almostsentient · 2018-11-29T21:09:07+00:00

We're here for you man. The trick to dating is to not do it and not care about it. Hard pull to swallow but once you do you'll find beauty in this world again.

CiceroVoltaire · 2018-11-29T21:49:36+00:00

Realize, accept and believe in yourself, your value; do it for yourself, by yourself, on your own terms, no one else's.

Decide what you want for your life, what's important to you. Make and execute a plan for yourself. Take steps to make yourself smarter, stronger, faster, etc., whatever it is that you want.

Set goals that are realistic, achievable, some easy some more difficult, that move you forward on your plan. Focus on yourself, become who you want to be.

Doing this will give you clarity, confidence, and motivation. All of this comes from inside yourself, find it and reconnect with it.

You have the will, strength and power as man to make your life what you want it to be. Find it within you.

If you fall, get back up. Always.

pepe_the_third · 2018-11-29T21:45:35+00:00

Here for you man, feel free to PM

spinsilo · 2018-11-29T23:41:35+00:00

I recently broke myself out of my depression after hitting rock bottom. It was almost entirely related to a relationship I was having. After breaking off the relationship, I was was able to stop therapy and get my sense of self back again.

I'm not sure what your individual situation is, but I would be very surprised if others in this sub hadn't experienced similar situations. Feel free to DM me also.

Frosty1990 · 2018-11-30T03:49:24+00:00

This post right her is why I love this community believe it or not, our depression, anger, and sadness and whatever mood swings your going through are caused by woman.

That girl you been dating for a couple of months broke up with you?

That girl you’ve really like gave you a look and you finally mustered up the courage to talk to her and she rejects you?

Your girlfriend/ wife isn’t happy and is constantly nagging you and harassing you for attention?

Your daughters dealing with some guy problems and now you have to consul her?

All these points spur up emotions in us and not good ones, and who are the people responsible for these emotions? You guessed it, it’s woman. they are the emotional creatures who put these emotions within us.

Men are not emotional we are logical and rational. An emotional man is an unstable man. So no matter how bad the day keep a tab on those emotions and continue to support one another.

We are truly alone in this fight that more people need to be aware about. Take care of one another and keep ya heads up

jhono235 · 2018-11-29T21:08:22+00:00

The best thing you can do is to train your mind not to care and your emotions not to react. When that feeling of loneliness creeps up on me I find something to do and keep myself busy. It's hard work but worth it man. Keep fighting the good fight.

veasel79 · 2018-11-29T23:15:43+00:00

Find yourself and what makes you happy. Could be hiking, reading, road trips, building shit, basically anything that passes the time but it didn't feel wasted.

MegtowMonk · 2018-11-30T01:30:11+00:00

protip: stop dating

Atton_Risk · 2018-11-30T01:37:56+00:00

EDIT: Wow, thank you guys so much for your kind words, I think I may have found a place where I feel like I can fit in and not be a criminal or scumbag for just being a male human being.

Take note lurkers this is why less censorship is better than more censorship.

Jonlife · 2018-11-30T09:40:41+00:00

Not sure why you didn't post this in the red pill sub (though they'll probably try to sell you a boot camp or a seminar that you just haven't been to yet for it to change your life.... For 3000.00 Lolol).

This is a mgtow sub. The key to dating here is to not date at all. I don't let em know I where I live. That goes for how I make money too. Any woman who's interested in that and not about the time you're having together right now gets ghosted faster than the scene in the movie heat.

The price of pussy has plummeted, hence why they're going after your livelihood now. Don't even give them that opportunity

guytronics · 2018-11-29T21:35:48+00:00

As others have said, feel free to message me if you ever need someone to talk to or even just to rant.

I have recently deleted the apps as well. Although I am in the process of getting divorced I have seen the anxiety and depression it has unleashed in my friends and once I started to see it in me, I knew the best way was to go monk mode.

JameisBong · 2018-11-30T12:48:53+00:00

Dating is cool from time to time(I don't do it, my money is exclusively for me...or escorts) try to enjoy the experience, and date many many women to understand the crazies that are out there. Eventually you'll understand just how dumb and useless women are these days.

Title	I need some support
Author	almostsentient
Upvotes	29
Comments	24
Date	November 29, 2018 9:04 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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