Hi,

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I'm a woman. I'v been curious about this movement and reading into it. Honestly, I cannot blame you guys. Not only does the media paint men in an unflattering way and make them out to be the bumbling idiots often while the woman is the all knowing wise character, but in the modern western world it is easy for a woman to destroy a man's reputation and wealth that HE earned. I find that to be pretty sick, especially if feminists say they want equality. I find feminist to be retroactive for women, telling us we have to be victims and have to be offended, when the best way to live life and be successful and happy is to let things roll off your shoulder and to focus on what is truly important..not be a slave to your emotions and insecurities. More woman need to be taught this growing up...not to be offended and a raging bitch. That is not strength.

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A little about me. I'm in my 30's. I have always been kind of nerdy, (not a Stacy), a loner and more interested in working, earning, investing, creating and traveling than starting a family and settling down. I have no regrets. I may be alone forever and that is ok. I chose this path. Most men will want a woman who can have kids and that is ok. I do not resent the world for this. I chose my destiny. The first step to true freedom is self responsibility and accepting the fact that if you want to be treated equally, you need you stop blaming the world around you for everything that has ever happened to you. We have free will. We choose.

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As for women who want to be homemakers and mothers and wives, I have tremendous respect for women who can and wish to do that. I think the fact that society has demonized the mother and made her feel she is not as good as a career woman is wrong. Mothers and wives are important jobs. And many women are cut out for it, obviously. They should not be made to feel that it is not a real existence.

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I also think that is a woman chooses to have children and a family, then she needs to accept that the kids need a father and that the best situation is for the mother to be home with the kids. There is a reason humans have been doing this for centuries. It is not wrong or less than. And a solid family where the kids see parents respecting each other and being team produced the most balanced people and is paramount for the survival of a society. I think women are brainwashed into thinking they need to either manipulate or compete with men. And they should be learning by example that it should be an honest team effort, not a competition.

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I may not be the mother/wife type, but I'm still a woman and not a man. I do not resent men for their sex drive or interests. I do not resent mothers... or career women. The only people I resent are the ones who want to demonize an entire gender. And feminists are guilty of this.

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I do think girls these days grow up with awful role models that teach them to identify by how well they can manipulate the world with their looks ans sex, instead of focusing on true artists and great minds as role models, devolve into the bar/club gals who will manipulate and morph to fit what they think men watch them to be because they have no sense of themselves. I was lucky to have a mom who read to me and no interests in pop culture growing up. That is sad and why we have this generation of fuck girls. they have been told to be spoiled, childish brats who use their sex as a weapon and told it is ok, (I have no issue with sex workers...that is a job and an entertainment role and should be looked upon as acting. But I'm talking about women who bring the attitude of being manipulative and nasty and fake into their real relationships)

I think women need to chill. They do not have to prove themselves to anyone. Just be who you feel you are. If you want to focus on a career, do that. If you wanna be a mother, do that. But do not resent men. Be a partner, not a crippled, sobbing child or tyrannical bitch. Be an adult. Take responsibility. And also realize not all men are the same. They are people. We are all people.

Anyways, I am not a man so cannot know the struggles, but I have watched my whole life, from the 80's to now, as men have been taken advantage of in different ways than women have and we all need to be aware of what is truly just and fair. We also need to appreciate the things about men that make them men and the things about women that make them women.