Loneliness

Reinehc · 2019-02-11T18:49:36+00:00

Focus on your education right now, study something that will get you a lot of money...

My advice? Suck it up right now... acquired education, find good career, make a lot of money. Once this is acheived, women will find you, believe me.

If you fall for a girl during this critical time in your life where you working to set up your career, it will ruin it. Women dont support men getting to the top, they want the guy at the top. So get there first AND after, the party begin!

DangZagnut · 2019-02-11T18:24:05+00:00

Get cheap hobbies. Harmonica is always a great way to annoy people.

DeMeza · 2019-02-11T18:40:07+00:00

Everything gets better as you get older. I think it’s quite normal for young men to feel lonely. So you’re not alone. Just focus on you and what makes you happy and don’t focus on what you don’t have. Getting laid is not all it’s cracked up to be. When I was in college, getting laid was hard. Now it’s easy, but now I also don’t care.

swankvagabond · 2019-02-11T19:12:12+00:00

In the long term, keep yourself busy with hobbies, go to a gym and do some exercises. Read books.

In the short term, save some money and pay a cheap hooker or play with your hand.

Keep in mind that sex is not a big deal but use protection at all times.

binkerfluid · 2019-02-11T19:17:49+00:00

yeah, Im incredibly lonely right now.

I just cant trust women to have a relationship, which is why im here, and ive since had no real interest in one. but I am lonely and do miss some of it.

Texian_Fusilier · 2019-02-11T18:23:13+00:00

Play video games, drink, maybe,

CoinSwapTrader · 2019-02-11T18:23:29+00:00

Getting laid broke is easy....if you have no standards and don't mind putting your dick in danger!
Women look for potential...just tell average women you are studying law or medicine and dress like you're dressing down to not be noticed by the gold diggers. If you play the part you don't need to pay a woman!

Malprop · 2019-02-11T22:43:16+00:00

Are you lifting? A good session of squats always cures the loneliness.

ransay3277 · 2019-02-11T18:48:38+00:00

Old guy here. I don't know where you are geographically, but try cougars. Where to find em in your area is up to you. Make sure you are in shape. You tube Tom Leykis/cougars. That should be enough to get you started. Last thing. Don't neglect college. That is your top priority now.

Older_Miggy · 2019-02-11T21:53:27+00:00

Study, work out, study, develop a hobby or two, study.

Yggdrasill4 · 2019-02-12T00:08:01+00:00

A lot of comments giving advice to help extinguish the desire through distraction, but their is no emotional interpretation on how they personally feel about relentlessly fighting the desire for connection even though they know the many negatives of it... If you always desire sexual intimacy with women even without the baggage of a relationship and their bullshit, you still remain in a state of mind where women are always needed to fulfill this rudimentary biological drive; in a way you need women for mental stability sexually. If you are having sex with women with zero emotional connection, that barely activates oxytocin which gives you a slight opioid feeling, so you may as well masturbate by yourself for an orgasm. I think mgtow is not just fucking randoms for a wet hole, but for a temporary fantasy of a bonding experience they want deep down in their mentality but know congruently the negatives of pursuing further commitment on someone who will eventually disappoint them... The lack of experiencing one of the deepest connection humans can possibly make is dehumanizing, and that can harbor negative feedback loops in thought patterns in the youthful.

Edit: Distinguish to extinguish

adhadyantos · 2019-02-11T23:51:24+00:00

loneliness doesn't come from being alone, it comes from rejection. You can't be lonely if you don't expect anyone's attention or validation.

TheGreatEvil · 2019-02-11T18:26:27+00:00

You need to find your own goals. You are lonely because your goal was a family, but without a woman, you really can't get you of those. Now you need to do some soul searching and find what you want your future to be. Imagine how you want your life to be in 5 years, and then work for that to happen. Keep realistic though. A lot of new MGTOW want the law to change so that women magically change and start respecting them. I've lost hope on that a long time ago. My goal is to draw and program. So I set milestones, and try to meet them. As for lonely, you can have friends. Unlike what women say, men can be friends. Anyone who thinks that gay is better off away from you anyway.

OChinchinLordofDark · 2019-02-12T06:29:34+00:00

Just get studies finishes. Finish the important things before doing optional shit.

Title	Loneliness
Author	Malprop
Upvotes	18
Comments	22
Date	February 11, 2019 6:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/apj16k/loneliness/
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