“Lower your expectations”

Un1qu3-77 · 2020-01-02T11:35:38+00:00

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jadlkfjlakdsf · 2020-01-02T11:28:33+00:00

You should increase your standards. And play the long game. Patience is a virtue.

GrisBosque · 2020-01-02T11:50:59+00:00

A wise mgtow should have very high standards.

First, it will keep you out of a lot of trouble, and second: if you do get into a relationship it will be of higher quality. Third: you wont be fucking a pig, And fourth: it will force women to clean up their own acts.

Mgtow are de facto high quality males. Never lower yourself for gash, no matter what its attached to.

Better to filter a thousand out, than get involved with one cull.

Un1qu3-77 · 2020-01-02T11:46:49+00:00

The key to not lowering your standards is to live a life of contentment as a single person. That contentment should always be your starting point. If you're not content in your solitude, you're in no position to properly vet a woman anyways - that's the road that leads to Simp Town.

Absolutely there are good women out there (they're still women though), but even they should never be a source of your happiness and well-being. Women should only be an added bonus to the life you already live, and you should never (even if you believe you've found a NAWALT) put yourself in a position where the dissolution of that involvement is going to be an unnecessarily complicated process.

Your ride is your ride. If a good woman wants to tag along, then I say that's fine. But it's still your ride, and she's just a passenger.

AncientMGTOWWISDOM · 2020-01-02T12:48:30+00:00

women are mystified with a mans discipline

Un1qu3-77 · 2020-01-02T13:54:56+00:00

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2016RubiconTN · 2020-01-02T14:40:34+00:00

Exactly the correct response. Do not lower your expectations. In fact, they should be raised when dealing with modern women.

silly_birb · 2020-01-02T14:59:57+00:00

It's not worth to talk and date women, especially those that fucked guys after 20 min after meeting them.

My way or the highway

CertainCrow1 · 2020-01-02T15:14:01+00:00

It's ironic because women have redoxulous expectations and refuse to lower them at any point. Us men general are pretty easy to please... Like honestly I was at the point I was fine just being civil and sharing a roof basically and trying to at least make a somewhat functional family... but she still had this stupid fairy tale idea where she thought she could a tually be friends with me but can't be married to a man who jumps to her rescue every single time she thinks she's her feelings are hurt or oppressed or embarrassed etc. I said well I have no problem standing up for you but sometimes I just don't see things the Sam way and I'm trying to use my best judgement. According to her my judgement is flawed so I guess I'm just supposed to blindly be an attack dog?

Oh well.. was a lot more to it than that. Like many women nothing was ever good ebough. Loved telling me what to do constantly when I wasn't working and as many mentioned drove her nuts to see you put your feet up after a day at the office. Honestly I just want a bit of peace and quiet... even with all the bulls hit I still found reasons to smile and find joy in places.. she just whined and blamed me for her declining health claiming I stress her out so much I will send her to the grave early. Never mind when she first had high blood pressure ah didn't do a single thing doc asked. Pretty sure even after everything else went downhill a couple years later.. she only used treadmill regularly for like 2 weekz?

TentativeIncel · 2020-01-02T20:55:11+00:00

" Well i will not fuck my ass off in the gym" Yea I think that would be best LOL . But yea women love to tell men to lower their expectations because it suits them so well. It makes their job of manipulating men so much easier if nothing is even expected of them. Its clown world man, dont try to make sense of it.

ChadeepThundersheet · 2020-01-03T00:47:27+00:00

Very similar to the story of my life. I have exercised a shitload of discipline and put in tons of hard work to get where I’m at. Will never settle for some lazy bitch with zero future and a whorish past.

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2020-01-02T17:13:19+00:00

Remember, YOU are the prize, the catch.

FabianStrifeTulip · 2020-01-02T17:37:30+00:00

I think that all men should lower their expectations regarding women. One should not expect to find the love of his life in a woman.

Standards? What standards? There is no such thing as an unicorn. There are only standard women. Awalt.

Both expectations and standards are nothing but social constructs. And considering today society they are or are turned against men. Stop relying on any social construct.

Many mgtows say that men shouldnt have give women rights and the solution would be to take away those rights. Thats wrong. Taking back is always harder if not impossible. What if men will also give women a cobsiderable amount of responsibilities to women so that they give away by will the rights they dont deserve?

We are animals afterall. Society and women exploit men biology and make men do the work in exchange of chance of sex.

But i dont think that men are dumb animals. And maybe they should also rely on biology to get the upper hand in society. As a man and as an animal you dont need much. Go mgtow. Go as minimalist as possible. Stop being a consumer and work only according to your needs, not according to society/women standards or expectations. Let women and simps do the hard work that they demand. If women nowadays chase the top 20 percent men Let them too to do the work. Why should you?

Biology does not care about society. Use that. In order for the species to survive it takes much fewer males than females. Does that mean biology needs the extra number of males to sustain the wealthfare of the population? Fk no. The extra males can gtow any time. Society instead does need them. So the problem facing here by men is not biology but society. You can be mgtow and biologically be free but you cannot be free from the society. It cannot force you to marry but it can take your money any time for its welfare. So the less you contribute the more it will have to rely on the rest of the men who believe in it. Why should you pay for it if you are not appreciated for what you do?

Society is the plantation. Just a thought.

Flat4DIT · 2020-01-02T20:05:03+00:00

I can accept a lot of things, but I have ZERO TOLERANCE for cock carousel riders, even if she was perfect in every other aspect.

Because cock carousel riders ALWAYS have a bunch of other issues.

RocknR0IIa · 2020-01-02T14:43:49+00:00

Hire an escort! Best taking care of your needs that way.

Title	“Lower your expectations”
Author	Un1qu3-77
Upvotes	80
Comments	24
Date	January 2, 2020 11:16 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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