Message to Ex

Fearless_Ser · 2016-11-15T02:36:02+00:00

Yeah man fuck that bitch

cashmoney_x · 2016-11-15T04:07:17+00:00

Listen to me: Go for a nice walk in nature and BREATHE.

cynicalsimon · 2016-11-15T07:10:39+00:00

i was with her when i hated to be so and she left when life was hardest for me

Well then we have something that's in common. When the chips were down, my ex-girlfriend said 'you can find another girl that can put up with this kind of stuff better'. The modern women puts ZERO, absolutely ZERO effort into relationships, all the while, you are expected to do anything and everything for her. Why? Because vagina of course. We are utilities to them. Nothing more. I learned this the hard way and its frankly unsettling and its made me stop chasing women. They don't see us as humans. Extreme but truth.

Zero brain activity creature. Disloyal garbage!

After what was truly an extremely passionate and legitimate romantic relationship, two weeks after we broke up and she said 'she cried for a week'(bullshit), she was dating someone new. Do you have any fucking idea how furious and betrayed and miserable that made me!? How the fuck could anyone who loved you do that to you? We wanted to stay together for a long time. We were planning a beautiful life together and she just...she forgets and dates someone new, like I never existed. The break up was supposed to be for a break and then we would think about each other. That was implied but apparently she thought otherwise.

Then ...something I still don't want to EVER accept is...well maybe she never loved me. Well I knew she did a bit..right? But ...she was certainly a good actor....because if she stopped caring that fast, 2 weeks later...I felt so betrayed. The fact that women do this just makes me repulsed by them.

This is why I don't date because this is women's nature.

"Not all women are the same. You shouldn't blame all women for what your ex did"- BULLSHIT. Women all behave this way but they will NEVER admit it. Women are EXCELLENT actors and they can make it seem like they are madly in love with you, when their not.

I will never accept that my ex didn't love me because its too painful. This relationship meant the world to me but I will admit that she was a fenominal actor...how could anyone do such a cold hearted, cruel and terrible thing? No check up on me every once in a while, no 'lets talk where things went wrong', no NOTHING.

She just stopped. I never existed to her. That was it.

and now I realize. I finally realize, event though my heart will never let go of her.....that she was a selfish cunt. She wouldn't adapt. It was only about her. She would get upset about frequent blowjobs but you know what? When the roses stopped and the last gift was given, she quickly became ancy. My love was not enough at that point. She wanted more. I wasn't enough. She wanted more material gifts and constant attention and me to change more and more and more. NOTHING was enough

MajorRobotnik · 2016-11-15T03:37:25+00:00

I remember I didn't even give my ex a proper breakup notification, I just cut her out of my life. The entire 6 month relationship was non-stop drama anyway, why not just skip to the part where it's over? It worked too, I haven't seen or heard from her since.

Fearless_Ser · 2016-11-15T08:40:05+00:00

i was with her when i hated to be so and she left when life was hardest for me.

This is what they do and why we're MGTOW.

Don't write her anything. Best revenge is to never acknowledge her again.

nigelh · 2016-11-15T10:27:22+00:00

Revenge won't make you to feel better. Stop. Think. Refocus and enjoy life. What's gone is gone. Just don't do it again.

slappydapussy · 2016-11-15T04:33:09+00:00

burner phone. But can't recommend contacting her.

EpsilonJoe · 2016-11-15T04:35:57+00:00

Keep calm and MGTOW

inspiron3000 · 2016-11-15T12:33:27+00:00

You give a fuck. Waste of energy.

cynicalsimon · 2016-11-15T07:11:09+00:00

Long comment of mine but I think my post is worth the read. Op, I think you can relate, maybe?

Playstation_5 · 2016-11-15T07:59:07+00:00

No contact is easy and healthy, just don't give in as it is pointless. I have numerous friends with kids who are divorced or separated who still get endless shit from women they no longer care about as they stay in contact 'I have to, because of the kids' the sole result being they are treated like ATMS and on call 24/7 babysitters

It's also quite amusing seeing them get irate when you don't answer messages.

s0ma_ · 2016-11-15T12:47:33+00:00

welcome brother. leave that plantation behind. never look back

solaceFromSolitude · 2016-11-15T14:51:24+00:00

I have a tip that has helped me greatly many times; When you feel an urge to write something in anger to someone, be it an ex, your boss, your mother... write it in a letter. Print it out. Put it in an envelope. Never send it. Just put it in a drawer.

Sometimes I even write long replies on the internet. Then when I feel done, I just close the window without posting the reply. You achieve the same effect, but have no consequences, such as in this case, you reveal information to your ex.

Your ex is dead to you. She should be. Write her a letter then burn it. The knowledge she knows what you have written is worthless. It is all about you getting it out of your system.

Fearless_Ser · 2016-11-15T19:44:48+00:00

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socketcrown · 2016-11-16T13:10:47+00:00

You can write what you want. I've found no contact just happens naturally because it's easier to forget about than say anything, most people seem unwilling to listen

Title	Message to Ex
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	14
Comments	36
Date	November 15, 2016 2:27 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/5d0398/message_to_ex/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/message-to-ex.622707 https://theredarchive.com/post/622707

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