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Any man who comes here and says he is completely devoid of any and all natural desires with women is a damned liar or a fool. Even the monks within this place will still get a temptation here and there, even if it's just appreciating the aesthetics of a nice ass in passing glances.
I say this to emphasize that not only are you not alone in those feelings, but it's pretty much to be expected due to biology. I mean, unless you're severely handicapped or something, I don't see how you could suppress all of it.
I, too, have had those feelings of "what if", then I think back on the terrible relationships I've had, and one in particular who was the patron saint of dumpster fires, then recoil in anguish and slap myself back into reality.
These days I'm pretty content, but even a year ago I'd have occasionally thought about that, and tossed around the idea of dating again while lying to myself that it would be "just for friends" or "just somebody to hang out with", which in reality it was slick willy taking the wheel.
Couple of times in recent years I got close, too close, to being in a relationship again and all of the terrible "oh god what have I done" thoughts crept right the fuck back in and shut that shit down hard as hell.
Then, I retreat into my "library", where I have my books, whiskey, cigars, notable "nicknacks" from my life, and my turn table. I sit in my comfy ass leather chair and flip some pages of Hunter Thompson or Bukowski, or just sip some jack on the rocks while led zeppelin plays. I thank myself very deeply for remembering that I've got all the fucking solace I need between my hobbies, my career, and my friends.
Every single time you so much as even hint that you're open to having a relationship -ESPECIALLY- if you've got your shit together, you'll be preyed upon like a lamb by the money hungry single mothers who know nothing but heartbreak, misery, pain, manipulation, lies, deceit, and treachery.
It's what blows my mind at how uninformed and ignorant the incels and simps are. They fucking LUST for that shit so bad it drives them into psychosis. Literally thirsting for their own fucking demise. All you can do is shake your head at this society and keep on going your own way.
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Thanks man, I try to share thoughts here quite often. I'm working on a larger publication, I shared the sneak peek here awhile back. Within the coming months, probably by around the new year, I hope to have a good chunk of it done to share here.
I don't consider myself to be a sage or a philosopher or even a smart man, but I am admittedly intrigued enough by the nuances of the modern world we find ourselves in, to study it. Out of my studies, I've taken to sharing thoughts and opinions here, where I feel the community welcomes such things.
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Dude, that's awesome. I'd like to hear more from you.
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This place is GOLD
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