MGTOW LifeProTip

MincoLesharo · 2019-03-04T09:37:33+00:00

When I was 11 my mom died six months later my dad died two separate reasons.

Fast forward:

I graduated college and was dating this girl for a year and a half. I did not want to sneak around and have her lie to her mother about going to a hotel with me.

So I told her that she should sit down with her mom and just explain to her that she doesn’t wanna lie to her, that she’s an adult and she wants to ask permission to spend the weekend with me at a hotel about an hour away.

I knew it would work and I did not want any of the anxiety about sneaking around hanging over either of our heads.

We discussed it. She protested a bit and tried to explain to me that she didn’t think her mother would buy it.

I persisted and told her it would be OK

This chick actually said that I had no idea what I was talking about since I didn’t have a mother.

Very hurtful

I made her ask her mom and her mom said yes.

She later apologized for saying such a hurtful thing but I finally knew her heart.

We broke up a few months later. Even the most precious of women can be the most hurtful cunts ever.

ghost_sk8er · 2019-03-04T12:00:21+00:00

Personal story:

I was 15. Never had my father in my life. My first gf at the time. I opened up to her about how it hurt me so much to know my dad was never there. His choice. I remember telling her that i wish I had him to teach me how to shave, go fishing, have my first beer with him behind moms back. Cried my eyes out. Sometime after, we were arguing about some shit and she hit me with the “At least I have a dad”. Still hurts a bit to this day, 8 years later. Words really do hurt more than any physical pain.

Edit: I could never forget this shit man. When I played through the new god of war, there was this scene where kratos and his son had such a wholesome dad/son moment. Kratos kneeled down and grabbed his sons shoulders and said “No, we will be the Gods we choose to be” I replaced Gods with men and pictured my dad doing that. Fucking teared up man.

n0x29a · 2019-03-04T09:12:36+00:00

not even that. She will view you as weak. There's a story of a guy who opened up to this bitch and she posted on reddit about how she "helplessly" lost attraction to him even tho he seemed like the perfect guy for her.

nobsno · 2019-03-04T11:53:09+00:00

Never argue with women
Never appear weak to women
Do the above if you want to get rid of her

DT1726 · 2019-03-04T08:50:24+00:00

Bros are the best consultants.

2019-03-04T12:13:11+00:00

They beg you to open up about your emotions, then hurl whatever you opened up to them about at you in a demeaning way whenever it suits them. Seen it a thousand times to both me and to friends and even to strangers on the internet.

Yet more women than men are therapists.... https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/therapy-matters/201105/why-is-it-so-hard-find-male-therapist

user_miki · 2019-03-04T13:15:35+00:00

This should be pinned on all men walls at home.That happened to me before and all guys involved in LTR/marriage.

Women have no restraint to hurt a man when/where is most vulnerable.

Never ,Never, Never tell secrets about you or inside fears to any women.Never ,period, no buts.Not even your mother ,it will be used against you.Mothers, sisters, like sharing secrets to other women or even your girlfriend to brag about something secretly.

And avoid women therapists. They will blame your masculinity and will not understand how is to be male.

Toshiba1point0 · 2019-03-04T12:22:22+00:00

I laugh at the idiots at work going to lunch, having coffee, hanging out with them at work, telling them all their personal drama. I hear them all the time because they have no idea the volume of their voices and can never stfu about anything-especially secrets, gossip, soul crushing opinions, and manipulative little lies designed to resonate through others. I learned hard lessons when I was dumb enough to date my coworkers, found out apparently I was dating others, and fathering children with women I never saw. Words and information are chips in the big game used for emotional blackmail. The reason you stay away isn’t just to avoid the bs, it’s also to avoid casting any doubt in the appearance of impropriety.

When it comes to lovers, girlfriends, wives, you are the greatest guy in the world until you’re not then all hellfire will come down on you. Anything you have whether told in confidence or merely appears to be true will be spread and believed, and warped into anything they want it to be.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-03-04T12:30:56+00:00

As I have commented before, stay away from women who studied/study psychology. Even if they just took a class or just have some interest in it, stay the fuck away.

Source: experience on several occaisions

BertTheWelder · 2019-03-04T14:56:48+00:00

I’m not exactly a feminine guy, but I have to say this is one trait of theirs that I picked up. I’ve known every one of my ex’s dark secrets and trigger points. When they’ve tried to attack me emotionally, I’ve fired back even harder using their biggest insecurities. Here’s what happened:

They stop attacking. They cry genuine tears and shut down. At some point they admit I’m right, that they are X or Y. Then they’re broken down for the rest of the day. We eventually make up after a day or so. They genuinely cannot take it when someone goes emotionally nuclear on them, despite the fact they try to do it to you.

That’s not the fucked up part though.

The fucked up part is that when I’ve later tried to break up with them, they lose their shit and cry and say shit like “you know that I’m X and you love me anyway. No one else will. We’re supposed to be together. Etc.” By returning their emotional abuse, they bond to me and won’t let go no matter what I do.

That’s neither a brag nor a humblebrag, but a word of genuine warning not to try and beat them at their own emotionally abusive game. You CAN win the battle, but you lose the war because once they bond like that with you they will stop at nothing to keep you. The times women have physically attacked me it’s been because they were so angry I was really leaving them.

I’m sure someone can speculate better than me on the reason why, but I have a guess. I think that when you point out that you know about their biggest flaws, it elevates you in their mindset to being above them. It says “you’re fucked up because of X or Y and I’m not.” So they see you as a prize to keep because they’re so ashamed of being X or Y. A friend speculates it is the need of women to experience strong emotions; when they hurt like that it’s satisfying to them because it’s such a strong emotion. I don’t know about that, but I don’t know a lot about women.

Never underestimate the insecurities of a woman. Estrogen is a terrible hormone that makes you insecure and neurotic as fuck.

Fantoche_Dreemurr · 2019-03-04T12:53:29+00:00

Or just don't forget that "love" and "empathy" don't exist on women.

IcebergHermit · 2019-03-04T22:57:30+00:00

In 8th grade a girl laughed because my mom died of cancer

JRALynch · 2019-03-04T17:32:47+00:00

I had an ex who begged me to tell her my weaknesses. Being the blue pilled simp I was at the time, I told her. She then told me, "you shouldn't have told me that... because I'm going to use them against you."

She did.

She had NPD, but I like to think that she was the physical embodiment of female nature. I learned so much from that relationship that it took finding the red pill and later MGTOW to process it all.

Also, last night I found out a female friend of mine who I thought I was close with hadn't been coming around because she was getting "creepy vibes" from me... because I treated her like a quirky, slightly offbeat, but nonetheless beloved younger sister who I would tell that I enjoyed being friends with her and spending time with her...?

Suffice it to say, she's no longer my friend. I was surprised, but I'm also happy to have learned that. I can now count on one hand the number of women who are indispensable to me.

It would take up three-fifths of said hand.

3rdiguy · 2019-03-04T11:48:45+00:00

Too bad I learned this after the FACT. GIVE THEM NOTHING

shiskeyoffles · 2019-03-04T13:51:04+00:00

Just so you know, they can STILL fuck you even if you don't open up. They are much better at reading body language and understanding people in general compared to men. A better approach would be to understand what she is trying to do.. once you know you're being manipulated, just leave the conversation

I_am_Groot69 · 2019-03-04T20:31:10+00:00

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2011_dreamer · 2019-03-04T16:45:51+00:00

I once broke down and told my gf that I had seen someone die horrifically and had gotten ptsd from it. At the time she was supportive. Later, she actually used it against me and belittled me for it, totally unprovoked. This is why this sub is so strong and so active — because these stories are so real to so many of us.

Never let society tell you what to think. Defend your interests against these bitches.

filosophicalaardvark · 2019-03-04T08:59:24+00:00

What's that saying about arguing with idiots again? If you go by that, you won't be talking to women at all. Then they can't use anything against you

Uniqueusername360 · 2019-03-04T13:56:34+00:00

This is their go to move. They are physically weaker. So they go for psychological/emotional attacks

cleats4u · 2019-03-04T17:17:20+00:00

Any information one of these creatures gets about you will be used and cross referenced to call you a liar if you ever contradict anything. It's why they ask very personal questions (information to manipulate) and say rude shit (seeing how you react). They all think they are detectives, it's why the government and HR departments loves them so much. If you don't want trouble don't tell them anything. If she's not fucking you she's not your friend. I'm MGTOW. The most I'm ever going to want out of a woman is a piece of ass. If I'm not even interested in that then I have no business talking to her. If she is an accountant she will get me audited. If she is my lawyer...I'm losing my case. If she works for me, I'm losing my business! They are a complete net loss, even your daughter! I don't have one of those either.

theasshole999 · 2019-03-04T17:20:29+00:00

I typically use the b word or c word when this happens to me lol

JerryNewton7 · 2019-03-05T00:47:02+00:00

Remember your girlfriend or wife can easily become your worst enemy.

Anything you say can and will be used against you by an ice queen.

SSapling · 2019-03-04T16:25:55+00:00

Isn't this just a general rule? I mean, at this point it's just common sense...

dmunny44 · 2019-03-04T18:46:24+00:00

Wow women are evil. I wish i had an AI robot waifu to talk to.

BluetoothMcGee · 2019-03-04T21:15:39+00:00

This. This mistake is what started me on the path towards MGTOW.

Starter91 · 2019-03-05T14:04:01+00:00

But what if I don't get hurt emotionally?

ghost_sk8er · 2019-03-04T23:39:32+00:00

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jjhova36 · 2019-03-04T14:01:58+00:00

This is 100% true

Title	MGTOW LifeProTip
Author	ghost_sk8er
Upvotes	542
Comments	85
Date	March 4, 2019 8:27 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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