Monk mode

2018-10-07T02:13:27+00:00

its not easy, but you are a man, accept a challenge for once

SanPedroLover_ · 2018-10-07T02:21:12+00:00

Been in monk mode for at least 10 years, probably longer. I dedicate my free time to hobbies, learning, working out/exercising, and introspection & mind expansion thru the use of various drugs. Will most likely live the rest of my life this way and i will leave this realm all alone, just the same way we all come into it.

This does not bother me at this point, and I truely do prefer it this way. Serious relationships do not interest me at all and seem very annoying. Casual relationships BARELY interest me and I often am the one who passes on a girl, not her passing on me, as I do not have very much interest in sex or getting to know people.

To each their own.

TopherOHoolihan · 2018-10-07T02:18:16+00:00

Yes monk mode plus no fap plus a serious mission in life is like having your life on adventure mode.

chemtrail_injection · 2018-10-07T02:15:55+00:00

I have been in monk mode for many months. It's not that bad. And there are even good looking women who approach me still. It's hard when the opportunity is there, but sex is a spiritual practice which is why it's common to feel empty after irresponsible sex

TowingMig · 2018-10-07T11:21:39+00:00

Wtf who dies without sex? lol

I've been monk for 2 years now and I'm alright. I avoided all types of sexual content and it helps me a lot. If I can't control I try to meditate, but it it doesn't make results I fap and everything is fine again.

I focused right now on a few projects and after achieving them I'll start doing some trips

xopi2000 · 2018-10-07T07:10:24+00:00

Monk mode for like 3 years now. I have a count that is definitely at least in the 95th percentile from before. I wasn't Chad, but I played the numbers game.

I am now completely disgusted by women. I have learned their true nature and now I want nothing to do with them. I have beat biology. I don't even notice 99.99% of the women in my vicinity when I go out. My radar is permanently off. The ones I do notice is because they're making themselves noticed.

You just start feeling this way.

2018-10-07T19:25:15+00:00

Yes. Because the alternative is much worse. I’d rather jerk off than lose everything

2018-10-07T21:42:02+00:00

Can you really abstain from sex for a long time without wanting to die?

I have been "abstaining" from sex since my entire life. A daily dose of one-handed action and not giving an airborne shit about what women think about me have pretty much fixed my mood problems.

TheBattlingBastard · 2018-10-07T02:22:40+00:00

I have done it before the problems I had were first when you want to fuck it’s intense you damn near want to fight your mama if you don’t fuck something, but I have found that it’s a mental thing and the feeling will pass. Also your have way more testosterone in your system so controlling aggression becomes an issue but that’s all mental as well you really have to monitor your mind in the beginning and set a pattern of calmness. Another thing to note is if you have a masterbation habit it is hard to break you may relapse a couple times cause your body can sometimes go on auto pilot and before you know it your hitting up chicks or beating off so what it all boils down to is your mental game with constant internal observation, once your successfully monk for like 2-3weeks it gets easier you won’t even be thinking about pussy, your productivity will go way up, and you will have a bunch of stored up aggression for when you need it.

MenGoingTOWin · 2018-10-07T02:25:25+00:00

Yes. It's not that hard. You just have to value yourself and be done with high-risk low-reward shit, like women.

Whitegamerinc_Twitch · 2018-10-07T04:39:47+00:00

Only been monk mode for a couple months, but going full monk mode is really tough. Resisting masturbating isn't easy

redditloginfail · 2018-10-07T04:49:49+00:00

Totally. Monk mode for 2 years I'd guess. Never felt better. I fap when i feel the need. I'm also 40, so that helps.

Sex just isn't a focus of my existence. I have other things to do. I don't know how i even fit relationships into my life before. No wonder i was so stressed out.

Edit: does monk mode mean no whacking it? I thought it just meant avoiding contact with women.

DWShimoda · 2018-10-07T18:58:26+00:00

Has anyone here been able to do it successfully?

Yes.

Can you really abstain from sex for a long time without wanting to die?

Some men can. Most men don't... thus "the trap."

redditloginfail · 2018-10-08T14:58:35+00:00

Also regarding the "wanting to die" part, it's all a matter of perspective. If you feel like you're "missing out" then you'll probably be sad. If you feel like you're avoiding a huge hassle with minor diminishing benefit, you'll be like yeah, this fleshlight sure is handy.

Title	Monk mode
Author	Drugs110
Upvotes	8
Comments	17
Date	October 7, 2018 2:11 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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