Napoleon once said that he could see the entire campagin play out in his mind and there are accounts of him pointing to a town on a map saying the final battle will be won here. Not sure if the is historically accurate or just stories of the time that have lasted the ages, but today was my Napoleon momment.

I was in a long term relationship with someone who had a child from a previous relationship. I accepted the child, we dated, moved in together and eventually I got her onto the a local fire department by helping her train and giving her motivation to do so. She spent countless hours at the fire house and I spent that time at home watching the child. I was sitting with a fellow male which during our conversation I started to think I bet she is flirting the crap out of all these guys there and if she isnt cheating on me she would be positioning herself to have a back-up. This was my first step towards MGTOW. Now I couldn't fully accept the thought, nor could I prove it. I did however start to prepare for the break up. When it came I was ready. I quickly moved out, took all my stuff and bought a home. I had already set up an arrangement with the landlord that I would pay my half to break the lease and if he didnt accept I would go on active duty orders for longer than 30 days to just get out of it anyways, this way he made some money. This forced my now ex to sign a new lease at the place or she would have to go to the side man for support and thus show her true colors. She resigned a lease there which is what I expected along with the PR-smear campagin to start. She told everyone how I was abusive verbally and emotionally and was never there for the child. Before the break up I had started to build up my "rep base" if you will with key people in the mutal groups. I confided privately with those people that I thought she was cheating with a fellow fireman and that when we broke up she would keep their relationship quiet until a 4 months after we broke up. Of course they were skeptical, but listened. Now we come to the present day all my predecitions had come true, but I kept an ace in the whole close to my chest.

During the preperations for the break up I had spent countless hours lobbying and working towards getting in a position to evaluate the CPAT (physical fitness test for the firefighters) in my area, because of my background and political connections. She had to pass the CPAT to become a firefighter and if she did not become a firefighter full time she would run out of savings and thus be evicted, forcing her to play into the public view of going to orginial side man. Well the time came and guess what I failed her, for actual legitimate reasons.

Revenge is a sweet thing my friends and I have advanced so far now that she is out of my life.