There was this girl on my college campus that I had been interested in since my sophomore year. She was beautiful with a bangin body, intelligent, and had a nice sense of humor. We started talking and hangin out almost incessantly. I was really into her but I noticed something in the beginning that I decided to ignore. Almost every conversation I brought up, it ended with being about sex. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t mind sex talk at all but it was like she could never speak more than 15 minutes about anything else.

Anyway, one night we were outside in a dark area outside the library, just me and her. We started making out then we headed to my place and we had sex. Afterwards, she told me she enjoyed it and that she was gonna go study. I walked her home, kissed her goodnight and went back home. This whole hangout - sex - walk home regimen lasted about 8 months.

I hit her up the next day, she didn’t respond. I texted and called that night, no response. About a week later, I was in full blown panic mode thinking she had been kidnapped, hurt, anything. I was thinking the worse. That Saturday morning, I get a text from her saying “Don’t text or call this number again or I’ll call the police.” I’m thinking “Wtf? What happened?” I try to text and call to figure out what happened. Early that afternoon, I get a knock on my door. It’s the police. They tell me that someone called them about harassment. Long story short, everything gets sorted out that same day and I have decided to let these women go. For good. I can’t deal with this any longer nor will I allow myself to. I’m really trying to avoid saying AWALT but in all my previous relationships, they’ve ended because the woman only wanted sex. I’m one of the good ones out here, and this is how I got treated so FUCK EM.