So not a problem with a woman, but with a guy for once. Me and this guy at work have been fighting for a long time. We're constantly trying to one-up each other. He is this arrogant smug and I hate loosing to him. Bur at the same time I feel like this rivalry has more turned into hate for each other. Like making progress isn't anymore about improving but about beating him. Honestly I dont wanna deal with this guy anymore, but that would also admit defeat. What would you do?