Nice Guys!

Ultramegasaurus · 2018-02-02T16:35:12+00:00

I dislike nice guys just like the next Red Pilled/Black Pilled dude for inflating women's egos further, but honestly, the way women (and the men regurgitating women's crap) hate on them is ridiculous.

If you took them serious, there is an epidemic of guys out there who act nice and then become rapists and killers when rejected. It's such a pile of bullshit. Women only hate on nice guys this much because they're unattractive men and drag women's true nature into the light. And if there is one fucking thing that women hate, it's being seen as the shallow, instinct-driven primates we all are. Women literally see themselves as too deep and virtuous to be shallow. Instead, they convinced everyone that shallowness is an exclusively male characteristic. So, in order to resolve this huge contradiction and cognitive dissonance of not being attracted to men who ought to be a perfect match, those men must be painted as evil by building strawmen of epic proportions. The clearest indicator of their strawmanning is how women always accuse nice guys of only wanting "to get in their pants", because desiring casual sex makes men, especially unattractive ones, extra disgusting. A dumb notion in itself, but it's also simply a lie. Nice guys base their behavior on a romantic fantasy dictated by media and female propaganda. And they also project their standards onto women, many men would be extremely flattered to have the female equivalent of a nice guy pining for them. Women literally say it themselves in their tirades: "nice is the baseline!", but that's untrue from men's point of view. The vast majority of nice guys want normal, loving relationships, not casual sex.

I do not have that much sympathy for nice guys, but I can exactly understand where they're coming from. And this sheer, unfiltered hatred against them really reveals women's utter lack of humility and gratefulness, plus the seething scorn for unattractive men. Nice guy shaming is toxic feminity in purity.

MGTOWorSLAVE · 2018-02-02T21:35:54+00:00

There is a simple cure for nice guy syndrome:

1) stop thinking of yourself as nice and just be a guy.

2) take the pussy off the pedestal. Women ain't shit. and love is a lie.

3) learn how to negotiate.

4) understand women are attracted to power and that includes the power to walk away.

DerKomissar1 · 2018-02-02T15:50:44+00:00

These days it would be like:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XZvWvfCSZ8M

DavidShekelburg · 2018-02-02T19:09:03+00:00

women are just mad that nice guys are getting tired of buying them dinners. If women really wanted to solve the problem of their nice guy orbiters expecting sex in exchange for buying them dinner then women would offer to pay for their own food!

poloppoyop · 2018-02-02T19:57:59+00:00

If you have not red already, Slate Star Codex has a really good post about nice guys

It does not mean “I am nice in some important cosmic sense, therefore I am entitled to sex with whomever I want.”

It means: “I am a nicer guy than Henry.”

Or to spell it out very carefully, Henry clearly has no trouble attracting partners. He’s been married five times and had multiple extra-marital affairs and pre-marital partners, many of whom were well aware of his past domestic violence convictions and knew exactly what they were getting into. Meanwhile, here I was, twenty-five years old, never been on a date in my life, every time I ask someone out I get laughed at, I’m constantly teased and mocked for being a virgin and a nerd whom no one could ever love, starting to develop a serious neurosis about it.

And here I was, tried my best never to be mean to anyone, pursued a productive career, worked hard to help all of my friends. I didn’t think I deserved to have the prettiest girl in school prostrate herself at my feet. But I did think I deserved to not be doing worse than Henry.

AidenA57 · 2018-02-03T03:21:06+00:00

r/niceguys

Blogginginvicecity · 2018-02-03T07:43:32+00:00

Cool. I haven't met any guys like that.

Mr_Meme_Machine · 2018-02-06T18:18:04+00:00

Being nice by nature kinda sucks, people like to think I just pretend.

Title	Nice Guys!
Author	WhatUPbRUTSKI
Upvotes	149
Comments	17
Date	February 2, 2018 3:32 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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