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I'm a father of a twelve-year-old, her birthday was yesterday. The way to keep a girl from becoming a whore or at least looking like one is at the age of seven or eight you start teaching her the rules of what is appropriate and what is inappropriate and they will agree with you because they're small little people and then what you do is you point out little kids who are dressed inappropriately and then you follow their progress over the years from 5th grade to 6th grade to 8th grade to high school and you start pointing out consistencies between how they dressed their behavior and the like. Soon they will understand what is appropriate and what is not.
They will conform.
Do not let their friends or their friends parents or the media or school rules or anything else influence what your standards are if you're not in insane fucker and you actually care about your daughter you know what's right and you know it's wrong and you teach it to your kids.
You have to be diligent and you can't be self-righteous you simply have to lay down the boundaries of what is right and what is wrong in a civil society and what the consequences are.
Women love to be lead... so lead your little girls into being decent human beings there are millions of little girls who are not whores they are good people the only thing you see on television are the shit.
I have cousins and nieces and nephews whose kids are damn near 1950s kids maybe even 1850s kids they're incredibly smart they go to the absolute best schools one of them is 22 and she still a virgin guaranteed partly cuz she's ugly as fuck but none the less...I digress.
And then after they turn about 18 to about 25 everything that you taught them will be reinforced because they will see it with their own eyes who the whores are and what bad things happened to the whores.
The absolute worst case scenario is that my daughter will ignore everything that I taught her but that will not be my responsibility and it won't be my fault it will be her responsibility and it will be her fault and that my friends is a responsibility of a father to teach and lay down The rules.
To smartly teach them. not demand, not command....but to smartly teach them.
That doesn't mean it is 100% bulletproof strategy for every single family and every single person, but if you took an entire country and you taught them what was appropriate and you taught them what wasn't and you stuck to the rules and you kept your boundaries and you made sure they adhere to the rules and you showed them the consequences of bad behavior you would see a country within 20 years completely transform.
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so I'm not the only one to notice... lots of new troll accounts as well
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Oh boy, only 12. Are you worried that easy mode is almost over?
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Not so funny when you consider how fucked up teenagers can get even though some were nearly angels as kids.
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When he is about 10 years old I would start him with a paper route. Do 30 minutes of research on all of the Fortune 500 CEOs that had paper routes and the benefits of having one.
Selling things door to door will teach him confidence and how to talk to people. Selling anything door to door is a good thing. They don't know What They don't know so it only benefits them.
Teach him to create two or three questions for the doctor whenever he goes to the doctor (or dentist) so that he knows that he is in charge of his own health and it teaches him to talk to adults like an adult.
Teach him how to shoot a gun... all the safety measures involved but never to touch a gun ever unless you are there and you give permission and you check to make sure it's safe.
Teach him how to fix things....there is a book called How Things Work. Great book.
Auto mechanics. Start with his bicycle. Teach him how to change a flat tire on his bicycle teach him how to rechain his bicycle when the chain pops off the gears teach him how to tighten the brakes. You can start him learning how to fix very small motorbikes and graduate to automobiles. Nothing major...just the basics.
The basics of electricity fixing electrical outlets in the house changing fixtures and doing the wiring. Don't just fix things yourself show him how to do it who cares if he's bored tell him you're going to test him or tell him the next one he has to do by himself with you coaching it'll take four or five times but he'll get it.
If he's into gaming teach him how to code. It doesn't matter if you don't know how to code make him start his own website he should read online.
There are books for kids on all these subjects like economics.
Teaching him economic principles is very easy.
There are fantastic books on amazon.com about economics that I started with my daughter. The stories are so simple they're almost to basic but I test her often.
I'll say "what is the principle being used in the fact that you don't want to go trick-or-treating on the next block?"
I really don't care if she gets the answer right but she'll talk around it and eventually we'll have a discussion about the law of diminishing returns.
Although this is only less than 1% of our interactions with each other they are meaningful.
I teach my daughter about negging and how demoralizing it is. I teach her never to do it to Boys... so if I had a boy I would teach him what negging is how to recognize it and never put up with it from a girl.
But mostly I would be the man that you want him to be because he will learn from watching you.
If I had a boy that's what I would do.
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Although I don't give much credence to what teachers say, I do take note that almost every teacher who has a problem child or 3 says that it all makes sense on the first parent-teacher conference.
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