Hi guys! I’d just like to share some problems I have encountered as a handsome man. Before I start I would like to make clear I am not complaining about being handsome, nor am I trying to be cocky. Just somethings I have noticed, feel free to chime in on any other thing you’ve noticed. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows for pretty boys!

  1. Guys hate me. Especially in bar/club type environments. The reality is I’m bad news bears for most guys. Even though I have no interest in hitting on your women. I can’t even talk to her without you becoming protective/jealous. Some of my friends haven’t even introduced me to their women. When I asked why, one guy even said I’m a “lady killer”.

  2. Sometimes women don’t take me seriously. They assume I’m a player without any reason besides my looks. They assume I have multiple women chasing after me or I’m taken.

  3. Dating me would be a massive concede of power to a pretty girl. Therefore she puts up bigger walls/shit tests and plays harder to get with me a lot more.

  4. Women hate me if I don’t hit on them if they show signs of interest. They will stonewall me, block me, and ignore me. It’s the same if I reject a girl, it’s like the end of the world.

  5. Even if I genuinely think a girl is cool and want to hangout and be friends. If she has a man, it never works out. She will act so distant/won’t open up because if she does open up.....she’s going to want too....yeah lol.

  6. I have to be VERY careful how I tease a girl and bust her balls when I first meet her because she will take it way too seriously.

  7. I’m more sought after for one night stands, women want to be the pretty ones in the relationships. They love that power.

  8. When you talk to women who are less attractive, they might get intimidated and think you just want them for sex.

  9. It’s harder to find genuine lovers. Yes I get more attention but with more quantity comes less quality.

  10. The amount of women you encounter just seeking validation and who have no genuine interest in me is annoying.

  11. JEALOUSY! It’s everywhere. From men, from women. It’s annoying.

  12. Most relationships end TERRIBLY!

  13. I can’t even smile at a girl or be nice to her without her thinking I’m hitting on her.

Bottom line I have noticed it takes a self confident women with healthy self-esteem to enter a relationship with a handsome man, otherwise their insecurities will eat them alive. You also notice how many truly beautiful women who have low self confidence and low self esteem.