Question: How unique are the problems we face with dating, romance, marriage, etc, in 2019?

DangZagnut · 2019-07-04T20:14:32+00:00

Nothing is different, it’s just more apparent now because information can be shared.

yooshio · 2019-07-04T20:12:13+00:00

The only thing that changes is our technology. The same song and dance has been occurring generation after generation ever since we were Australopithecus.

Ron-Don-Volante · 2019-07-04T20:16:33+00:00

So, yes, these problems have existed for some measure of time, BUT what makes this unique is that society has changed very quickly and the economy plays a factor in things as well.

Things are worse now because the ideals that make up today's climate are just jack shit all. Going your own way for anyone is an insurance plan to safeguard yourself from these major shifts in norms.

It's especially hard for a young man to try and make sense of the world today when we want to say everyone is equal, yet so many institutions are still geared towards shifting resources from men to women.

[deleted] · 2019-07-04T22:58:15+00:00

Uh the laws, and society being so brain dead that no one stands up for what's right to protect the innocent, that's for sure. You can legally lose your home, your wealth, your children, and everything you hold dear at the drop of a woman's hat. She can divorce you whenever she wants and for whatever reason or no reason at all and destroy your existence. It doesn't matter if you are the best husband in the world and do everything right and are completely innocent. You'll still be forced to stand before some judge on the account of a woman. No one steps up and declares this to be a travesty and puts an end to it. No one even bats an eye or comes to your aid when you as a man are victimized as such. You can come home and catch your wife in your bed with 2 other men with the kids asleep and still be forced to pay for her lifestyle with these men after she leaves you. Men have no rights to their property or rights to protect it. I guess when unborn children are systematically murdered on a daily basis then this kind of injustice goes by the wayside.

NotherThrowaway284 · 2019-07-04T23:27:00+00:00

Back when divorce used to be difficult and shameful and abortion used to be illegal and regarded as a moral horror, men and women both had things to fear against their own worst impulses. Now men have three times as many and women have none.

This is unique; this is new. Anyone saying otherwise is lying.

FrancoNore · 2019-07-04T20:21:32+00:00

Sure it may have been around to a degree but now it's worse than ever; like you said, thanks to social media and the internet. women used to seek validation from people they care about in their personal lives, now they search for validation and attention from as many people as possible on the internet. Thanks to social media, women can have dozens of dudes talking to them at the same time. Why settle down and commit to one guy when you can have as many as you want? Thanks to modern feminism, women are convinced that they are nothing but oppressed and victims in this society, so by treating men as awful as possible they're somehow fighting back against the system. It's all very backwards, no wonder why so many damn people are depressed nowadays

Gn0meRat · 2019-07-05T02:01:38+00:00

My dad's been through 2 divorces and is still going back for more crazy.

General_Fear · 2019-07-05T02:59:08+00:00

2,000 years ago, a woman was thrown to the feet of Jesus. They crowd said, "We caught this woman cheating, Jewish laws says we have to stone her." Jesus said, "Let he without sin, cast the first stone."

A minister was told me that in some bible translation, Jesus said, "Let he who is not guilty of this sin cast the first stone." The whole town walked away.

They have been dealing with women who cheat since Jesus's time. It was such a situation that it carried the death penalty.

Now here is the kicker. Today, in orthodox Muslim countries, stoning women who cheat is still happening. So today, women will risk the death penalty to get some. Now imagine what's happening in the West where there is no death penalty.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WHtLNWkPsZ0

liodevil · 2019-07-05T07:45:17+00:00

By good women it actually is "the lesser of two evils"

I met good women and they cost 200$/hour

mgtowsinceforever · 2019-07-05T10:52:31+00:00

We had social shaming for a reason. It worked. It kept us all decent, not just women. Men can be scumbags as well. But nowhere near the level of women (thats been my experience).

But this society generates feminized men that tolerate everything: divorcees, single mothers, club whores, drug addicts, sluts/whores.

That's a recipe for disaster for any given society, no matter how advanced it is. This is the first time I truly understand that propaganda just works. When I was a naive 17-18 years old kid and I read something that was propaganda, I thought to myself "nobody believes that,so obvious propaganda, laughable".

Because if men remained men, this shit wouldn't last. If there were no simps and beta cucks/orbiters/shits like that, women would have to act decent. No taxes, no money, no help from the government. They would be forced to be a decent human being.

Think about it: we now have 70 genders, lgbt is normalized and legalized, homosexuality is even endorsed in some cases, sluts are definitely endorsed.

There is no society that survived in these conditions.

user_miki · 2019-07-05T10:55:29+00:00

I'm old dude and your dad is a simp.It was not like that as now when rock and roll.we we fucked chicks they were screaming of pleasure not of metoo. You slapped you women back if she was aggressive. Social media was not a thing back there to infect everything in all the world.

MrMagtow · 2019-07-05T15:20:25+00:00

When you consider all men and all women share the same DNA (obviously different characteristics and the hormones too), our shared behaviors (ignore the words, people lie) are the truth of our story. Every woman I've dated, from different countries and different cultures have all ended up being exactly the same in actions.

They say things differently, but their actions are all the same. You either love women, or you understand them. I suggest you read everything on the side-bar as well as a book "sexploitation" which I've just read (expands on from The Manipulated Man) - you cannot believe "the one" exists when they're all the same.

roxon89 · 2019-07-05T23:20:14+00:00

I believe it’s much worse now. Social media has allowed even the most marginal of women to inflate their sense of self into the stratosphere because there is a never ending supply of beta orbiters willing to offer up all kinds of attention and compliments on line even if the woman weighs 350 pounds and or is older than Methuselah.

Title	Question: How unique are the problems we face with dating, romance, marriage, etc, in 2019?
Author	momonboi
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Date	July 4, 2019 8:06 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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