[Rant] I Hate my Brain

DangZagnut · 2019-11-02T06:31:24+00:00

I just find it bullshit, how I can’t just turn off the part of my brain that yearns for a mate

Get married. That should cure that pretty quickly.

You yearn for a fantasy that doesn't exist.

Over are the days of being able to meet a loyal female, or one that can even hold her own in an intellectual conversation. I keep telling myself this, until the biological urges go away.

Those days never existed. That's the fantasy, of some time period where the world was perfect. It never was. So your brain thinks it is possible to chase that dragon that's just a cloud. Women have never been some fantasy, they're exactly what they were then, they just didn't have social media back then to show the world.

Diogeneplz1 · 2019-11-02T06:39:03+00:00

Rarely could a bitch hold an intellectual conversation and, if they do, they're usually just parroting what others say rather than coming up with their own independent thoughts. I've struggled big with this, too, as I always thought I'd find that person, too. Sex is just a drug. Women are just for fun and/or sex. Men weren't meant to be tied down to one bitch. Civilization only started cause men were promised a young virgin as his property in exchange for their service. They never would've taken the deal otherwise. You gotta get your mind around this shit as we've been indoctrinated since birth.

If women could really be loyal for life due to their love for a man or due to honor, why would the institution of marriage need to exist and why would all civilized cultures throughout history have extreme cultural and legal restrictions on women? Women can not love men outside their kin, particularly their children. Even if she stays loyal, she will resent you and lose all sexual attraction to you over time. She may give you fish duty sex, but it'll be passionless and it'll be painfully obvious to anyone that's self aware. It's inevitable for all men. My plan is just to focus on self actualizing and taking what comes to me. Eventually I'll transition to escorts, too. Sex is just a drug to hit anymore. I think love sex exists, but you're gonna get 7 years of it at best and that is the virgin ideal. You're gonna have to face the void within you and embrace it. No bitch will ever fill it forever. Kids potentially can though or you fill it yourself. It's scary, but it's going to be so liberating when all your decisions are for yourself only and you don't give a fuck what other people think.

2019-11-02T06:31:14+00:00

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Tellnone25 · 2019-11-02T07:33:42+00:00

Unfortunately we men are actively fighting our biology when we cut off women. For me I deal with that by observing people in relationships. Then remind myself I'm a wise man.

Original_Username7 · 2019-11-02T15:12:01+00:00

I know exactly what you’re talking about, here’s what’s worked for me:

masturbate a lot, especially before and after you’re around women. It makes the desire pretty much disappear. Masterbate to the hottest porn you can find, the blessing will be that it will help desensitize you to the attractiveness of the normal women around you. A downside might be though that you’ll have worse sex and won’t be able to get hard for normal women. I want this though so it’s all a benefit to me.

realize that “loneliness” is largely a concept that’s been programmed into you by a society that wants to keep you dependent on it/women. When I investigated my “loneliness” I realized it was 1) fear of being alone, but the state of solitude was actually enjoyable to me. 2) boredom, I needed to learn to enjoy myself more. 3) desiring human interaction, good buddies fill this role just as well or better than any women I’ve been with. 4) I was horny without realizing it, and after masterbating the “loneliness” went away.

I also have learned that the feelings of “love” and enjoying human touch and intimacy are directly connect to brain chemicals like dopamine, oxytocin, and endorphins, and once you understand how these chemicals are released and are associated with your interactions with women, it de-mystifies what’s going on when you feel the magical/strong feelings around women, and you can also use other methods of stimulating these chemicals so that you can get their enjoyment and benefit.

I’ve pretty much become immune to women or a need for them now, I almost never feel lonely, and this is so different from how I used to be, I couldn’t handle being alone. Not a brag, but I have hot women begging me to sleep with them, flirting with me, etc., and I’m pretty much unaffected, enjoying my monk mode life for years now (even though I am a high libido guy). The worst it will get now is when I’m around a hot women for an extended period of time and they touch me, I really feel the “love” and desire chemicals hit my brain hard, but I just go home and masterbate and it’s totally gone again.

[deleted] · 2019-11-02T07:06:55+00:00

How much are you jerking off? Let’s up that to twice a day.

[deleted] · 2019-11-02T09:24:22+00:00

Get a different escort regularly dude, you'll soon be in control of your body, not your dick.

PorcoZozzo · 2019-11-02T06:48:00+00:00

It's survival instinct. You need to impregnate the female, so the brain is gonna play tricks on you. Understand that all your interactions with females are pushed by that very instinct and that you are just a tool for reproduction. Then jerk off, and move on.

captainsaveahoe69 · 2019-11-02T07:23:27+00:00

There is nothing wrong with female company or wanting sex. Long periods of being alone are not really healthy for anyone.

Just remember never to make any kind of fiduciary commitment to one of these women. This is where a lot of men come unstuck.

lonewolfsigmamgtow · 2019-11-02T10:27:18+00:00

Well its a natural thing. But you need to stay away by considering your own safety.

[deleted] · 2019-11-02T10:30:55+00:00

I would worry more about my bank account. Than, to be inside some pussy who have STDs.

Woman and dating are overrated thanks to the society, films, tvs and what not.

Do you want to be MeToo'ed?

Do you want to be raped divorced?

Do you want to pay alimony and child support, for probably kids that will be not yours?

Go ahead.

This is the reality that today men will face with the feminazi agenda.

GoodMan_Gone · 2019-11-02T08:34:04+00:00

You can't "switch it off" because it's a deep instinct. Same way you can't not feel hungry or thirsty. What you can do is "see the thoughts" and decide not acting on them. The same analogy with the Ice cream shop. Say you love ice cream and you walk by a shop. Just keep walking for 5 minutes and if you still want that ice, walk back. My bet is you won't.

nice_n_sleazy · 2019-11-02T12:49:59+00:00

Your brain is working fine. Start dating and witness the malfunctions to start.

breathen123 · 2019-11-02T18:51:56+00:00

Cerebral reprogramming is possible, but no one said it'd be easy, quick or painless

By the way, how's your routine usually like?

HelloItsMev1 · 2019-11-02T21:41:50+00:00

I'm 20 as well , I know exactly how you feel but I'm getting used to it day by day ,try meditating it helps.

MrMagtow · 2019-11-03T00:58:13+00:00

You're not going to win against 400,000+ years of biology.

You need to learn to hack your biology, feed the beast so it quietens and leaves you alone to pursue your life the way you want to.

sootlord · 2019-11-03T14:40:55+00:00

Hey brother I want to let you know we all feel this burning desire in our heads. We all yearn for love, affection, and attention. I have stayed single for a year now and the battle to get into a relationship is tough. The best thing we can do is try to cater to our needs in moderation and acknowledge the warnings older mgtow dish out.

8ur84uhrh398fh · 2019-11-04T01:04:57+00:00

My brain's way smarter than me. It's always fucking me around. That's why sometimes you just gotta blame the thing up there, instead of yourself.

2019-11-02T06:32:40+00:00

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brennyrodgers · 2019-11-02T21:02:45+00:00

Monk mode is inconsistent with atheistic world views. If life is really a cosmic accident, it makes no sense to deny yourself pleasure, considering life is short, you might die any moment, and there is no accountability or purpose without God.

(Spoiler: there is a God — the triune one from the Holy Bible. The only way to salvation is through Jesus Christ.)

Title	[Rant] I Hate my Brain
Author	ImaSealArfArfArf
Upvotes	36
Comments	32
Date	November 2, 2019 6:27 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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